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- I flip the flashcard over, see the answer, and instantly think "yeah, I totally knew that"
- A choice I made blew up and I’m tearing into myself
- The same misbehavior keeps coming back no matter what I do about it, and I’m starting to suspect I’m only swatting at the surface
- I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was reasonable with what I knew, and I pat myself on the back for a reckless one that happened to work
- We keep having the exact same blow-up over the exact same thing, and I’m starting to wonder if my kid genuinely doesn’t know how to handle that moment any other way
Practices that may help
- Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned
Judgments of learning (JOLs) are in-the-moment predictions about how well information will be remembered later. Thomas Nelson’s research showed JOLs are often inaccurate — biased upward by current processing fluency — causing learners to declare items "learned" prematurely and under-study material they will later forget. Delayed JOLs and retrieval-based checks produce more accurate predictions and better study-time allocation. - Commitment-forcing before feedback
Write a definite answer and confidence rating before seeing correct feedback — never the reverse.
Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned - Evaluate decisions by process, not outcome
Judge a decision by the quality of the reasoning at the time, not by what happened.
Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect - Identify the mistaken goal behind the misbehavior
Dreikurs argued that misbehavior is always purposeful — the child is pursuing belonging or significance through a mistaken strategy.
Natural and Logical Consequences (Rudolf Dreikurs) - Score decision quality separately from outcome quality
Judge the process you used — not whether it worked — when you review a past decision.
Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time - Take time for training — teach the skill, not just the rule
Children misbehave partly because they don’t know how to do the right thing — teach the skill when everyone is calm.
Positive Discipline (Jane Nelsen) - Global vs. local JOL separation
Rate individual items separately from your general sense of "how the session went" — they diverge.
Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned - Delayed judgment of learning
Wait several minutes after study before rating how well you will remember — early ratings are systematically too high.
Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned - Use the performance-feedback loop without Self 1
Treat every outcome as information, not a verdict — adjust without judging.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Separate the quality of the decision from the outcome
A good decision can produce a bad outcome, and a bad decision can produce a good outcome — do not confuse them.
Thinking in Bets
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Judgments of learning (JOLs) are in-the-moment predictions about how well information will be remembered later. Thomas Nelson’s research showed JOLs are often inaccurate — biased upward by current processing fluency — causing learners to declare items "learned" prematurely and under-study material they will later forget. Delayed JOLs and retrieval-based checks produce more accurate predictions and better study-time allocation.
- Judgments Of Learning Why You Misjudge What You Ve Learned During Conflict
Judgments of learning (JOLs) are in-the-moment predictions about how well information will be remembered later. Thomas Nelson’s research showed JOLs are often inaccurate — biased upward by current processing fluency — causing learners to declare items "learned" prematurely and under-study material they will later forget. Delayed JOLs and retrieval-based checks produce more accurate predictions and better study-time allocation.
- Judgments Of Learning Why You Misjudge What You Ve Learned As A Caregiver
Judgments of learning (JOLs) are in-the-moment predictions about how well information will be remembered later. Thomas Nelson’s research showed JOLs are often inaccurate — biased upward by current processing fluency — causing learners to declare items "learned" prematurely and under-study material they will later forget. Delayed JOLs and retrieval-based checks produce more accurate predictions and better study-time allocation.
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