Coaching practices for Keeping it P Meaning

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I keep hitting my targets and checking the boxes, and it keeps leaving me weirdly hollow
• I tell my kid "good job" all day and it doesn’t seem to change anything
• Every idea I come up with, I shoot down as unrealistic before it can go anywhere, so I never escape the sensible little box
• I disappear into the screen for hours and surface having completely forgotten what any of it is for
• The moment we start arguing, any sense that I actually like and respect this person evaporates

Practices that may help

1. Build meaning through contribution rather than achievement (meaning pillar)
   Orient your work toward what it does for others, not just what it earns you.
   Seligman’s PERMA Model, Made Practical
2. Pu: Taoist Simplicity and the Uncarved Block
   Pu (朴, "uncarved block") is a central image in Laozi’s Tao Te Ching representing a state of original simplicity — potential uncluttered by excess conditioning, opinion, and accumulated complexity. As a practice, pu means deliberately returning to essentials: stripping away unnecessary complexity in decisions, possessions, commitments, and inner speech to restore natural responsiveness.
3. Use descriptive praise instead of generic approval
   Tell the child exactly what they did right so they know what to repeat.
   Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
4. Provocation (PO): make a deliberately absurd statement to escape the pattern
   Prefix an impossible or absurd idea with "PO" to signal it is a provocation, not a proposal — then follow it to see what it unlocks.
   Lateral Thinking, Made Practical
5. Purpose Anchors: Keeping Meaning Accessible Day to Day
   Meaning research — particularly work by Baumeister, Steger, and Frankl-influenced researchers — finds that purpose is not a permanent state but something that must be actively maintained. "Purpose anchors" are concrete prompts, rituals, and artifacts that bring a person’s larger sense of why back into attentional focus across ordinary days.
6. Value-object anchoring
   Keep a physical object associated with your deepest purpose visible in your workspace.
   Purpose Anchors: Keeping Meaning Accessible Day to Day
7. Protect fondness actively during and after conflict
   Conflict is the test of PSO — deliberately hold the positive frame while the negative one is loudest.
   Positive Sentiment Override: How to Build the Lens That Protects Relationships
8. Internalize the rhythm to breathe without a pacer
   Practice with a pacer until the five-breaths-per-minute rhythm becomes automatic without counting.
   Coherent Breathing, Made Practical
9. Give clear, calm, single instructions
   One specific direction at a time, calmly stated once, is more effective than repeated commands.
   Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
10. Seligman’s PERMA Model, Made Practical
    Martin Seligman’s PERMA model identifies five pillars of well-being: Positive Emotions, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment. Unlike happiness models that treat well-being as a single variable, PERMA argues these five elements are each intrinsically valued and each independently improvable. Several PERMA-targeted interventions have randomized-trial support; others are mechanistically grounded with less direct evidence.

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