Coaching practices for Leader Member Exchange Development

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • There are people on my team I’ve quietly written off
  • My boss took a real chance on me and advocated for me, and I just took it and moved on without ever closing the loop
  • I lead a team and I’ve realized the people I lean on most are the ones who remind me of myself or are just easy to be around
  • I keep waiting for my manager to notice me and hand me more trust, and it’s not happening
  • My team only ever gets the leftover scraps from me, and it shows

Practices that may help

  1. Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
    Leader-member exchange theory, developed by George Graen and Mary Uhl-Bien, holds that leaders do not treat all followers the same — they develop distinct dyadic relationships ranging from high-LMX (trust, respect, mutual obligation) to low-LMX (formal, exchange-based). High-LMX relationships are consistently associated with better performance, satisfaction, and career outcomes in observational research.
  2. Deliberately expand your inner circle
    Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  3. Reciprocate when your leader invests in you
    When a leader gives you trust, opportunity, or advocacy, close the loop with visible follow-through.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  4. Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
    Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  5. Invest in the relationship before you need it
    Build relational credit through reliability and initiative, not charm or performance alone.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  6. Use delegation as a development tool
    Assign Q3 tasks to team members who are ready to stretch — and treat the learning curve as the point.
    The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation
  7. Expand your role through extra-role behavior
    Voluntarily take on work beyond your formal responsibilities to signal readiness for a higher-trust relationship.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
  8. Put the growth of others first
    Start from "how do I help this person succeed?" rather than "how do they help me succeed?"
    Servant Leadership, Made Practical
  9. Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it
    Develop leadership capacity throughout the team, not just in the designated leader.
    Transformational Leadership, Made Practical
  10. Repair a damaged leader-follower relationship deliberately
    Take active steps to reset a deteriorated relationship, rather than allowing avoidance to compound the damage.
    Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical

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