Coaching practices for Life Stage Planning

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I honestly can’t tell where I am in my own life right now
• My whole week is just a pile of work tasks, and the parts of me that matter
• I’ve looked back at the arc of my life and now I want to extend it forward
• This chapter of my life feels like scattered, disconnected fragments with no through-line, and I want to be able to tell the story of it
• I’m still running the money rules I set years ago

Practices that may help

1. Seasons of Life
   The seasons-of-life framework treats adult development as a sequence of distinct phases — each with its own natural demands, appropriate priorities, and transition challenges. Drawing on developmental psychology (Levinson, Erikson, Sheehy) and practical life-design work, it argues that straining against your current season (trying to do spring work in autumn, or refusing to accept a transition) produces more distress than the season itself.
2. Identify your current season honestly
   Name the season you are actually in — not the one you want to be in or the one others expect.
   Seasons of Life
3. Plan from roles and goals, not from tasks
   Before listing tasks, list your key roles this week and name one meaningful goal for each.
   Big Rocks First
4. The future life line
   Extend your timeline forward and sketch the peaks and turning points you want to create — then work backward to today.
   The Life Line Exercise
5. Write a brief narrative of your season to make it coherent
   People who can tell a coherent story about their life stage navigate it more effectively than those who cannot.
   Seasons of Life
6. Review and update your conscious spending plan annually
   Treat your plan as a living document that reflects who you are this year, not who you were.
   Conscious Spending Plan, Made Practical
7. Plan for obstacles with coping plans
   Anticipate the specific obstacles most likely to block your plan and pre-decide your response to each.
   Action Planning
8. Chapter titles — giving each life phase a name
   Divide your life line into phases and give each a chapter title that captures its essential quality.
   The Life Line Exercise
9. Draft three genuinely different five-year plans
   Sketch three distinct five-year lives — not variations on the same theme, but genuinely different directions.
   Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
10. Navigate season transitions — the gap is normal and necessary
    The confusion and loss of meaning between seasons is structural, not personal failure.
    Seasons of Life

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