Coaching practices for Naming Life Periods

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My past runs together into one undifferentiated tangle, and I want to break it into distinct phases and name each one
• I honestly can’t tell where I am in my own life right now
• Everything that used to give my life shape suddenly feels hollow and the new thing hasn’t arrived yet, so I’m stuck in this disorienting in-between
• My life feels like one undifferentiated blur of stuff that happened, and I can’t step back far enough to see the shape of it
• This chapter of my life feels like scattered, disconnected fragments with no through-line, and I want to be able to tell the story of it

Practices that may help

1. Chapter titles — giving each life phase a name
   Divide your life line into phases and give each a chapter title that captures its essential quality.
   The Life Line Exercise
2. Identify your current season honestly
   Name the season you are actually in — not the one you want to be in or the one others expect.
   Seasons of Life
3. Seasons of Life
   The seasons-of-life framework treats adult development as a sequence of distinct phases — each with its own natural demands, appropriate priorities, and transition challenges. Drawing on developmental psychology (Levinson, Erikson, Sheehy) and practical life-design work, it argues that straining against your current season (trying to do spring work in autumn, or refusing to accept a transition) produces more distress than the season itself.
4. Navigate season transitions — the gap is normal and necessary
   The confusion and loss of meaning between seasons is structural, not personal failure.
   Seasons of Life
5. Map your life in chapters
   Divide your life into named chapters to see the arc you’ve been living.
   Narrative Identity, Made Practical
6. Write a brief narrative of your season to make it coherent
   People who can tell a coherent story about their life stage navigate it more effectively than those who cannot.
   Seasons of Life
7. Draw the life line
   Draw a horizontal timeline and mark the key high points, low points, and turning points of your life.
   The Life Line Exercise
8. The future life line
   Extend your timeline forward and sketch the peaks and turning points you want to create — then work backward to today.
   The Life Line Exercise
9. Construct a lifeline
   Lay out your entire life chronologically using symbolic markers — stones for traumatic events, flowers for positive ones.
   Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
10. Write a structured autobiography by life chapter
    Divide your life into chapters and write the story of each — what happened, what you felt, what it meant.
    Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy

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