Coaching practices for Lunch Networking

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I eat lunch at my desk alone most days and let weeks slip by without really seeing anyone, telling myself I’m too busy
• My whole week funnels me past the exact same faces
• I walk into these meetings already feeling like a supplicant with my hand out, and I can tell the other person feels it too and gets guarded
• I’ll have a genuinely good conversation with someone and then just… never follow up, and the connection quietly evaporates
• I keep noticing that two people I know should really meet

Practices that may help

1. Fill your social calendar intentionally
   Treat every meal, coffee, and event as a relationship-building opportunity and schedule them as such.
   Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
2. Design for serendipitous encounters
   Put yourself in environments where unexpected, cross-cluster contact is structurally likely.
   The Strength of Weak Ties
3. Lead with generosity, not an agenda
   Enter every networking context asking what you can give, not what you can get.
   Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
4. Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
   Keith Ferrazzi’s approach treats networking as ongoing generosity rather than transactional deal-making: connect people, share knowledge, follow through, and show real interest. The evidence base is largely practitioner experience and case studies — honest about what it is — but the underlying principles align with well-studied reciprocity and social capital research.
5. Follow up every meaningful interaction
   Send a specific, timely follow-up after every conversation that matters.
   Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
6. Become the connector in every room
   Make it your personal brand to know who should meet whom.
   Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
7. Make cross-cluster introductions
   Introduce two people from different clusters who genuinely benefit from meeting.
   The Strength of Weak Ties
8. Run a weekly leadership team meeting focused on strategic issues
   Hold a structured weekly meeting that separates strategic issues from operational updates.
   The Rockefeller Habits: Scaling Up with Rhythm and Focus
9. Map your network clusters
   Draw out the distinct social worlds you move in to find where your bridges are thin.
   The Strength of Weak Ties
10. Follow through on micro-commitments
    Always do the small thing you said you’d do — weak ties live or die on reliability.
    The Strength of Weak Ties

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