Coaching practices for Marcus Aurelius Impediment Action
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Something has blocked the path I was set on and my whole reaction is frustration and trying to force my original plan through it
- I keep landing in one of two ditches
- I know who I’m going to deal with today
- I’m never really doing the thing I’m doing
- This one problem has swelled up to fill my entire field of vision, like it’s the only thing in the world
Practices that may help
- Treat each obstacle as an opportunity for the discipline of action
When something blocks your intended action, ask what virtuous response the obstacle itself calls for.
The Stoic Discipline of Action - Act as a rational social animal — remember your dual nature
Before acting, check both: is this rational (consistent with reason and reality)? And is it social (does it serve others)?
The Stoic Discipline of Action - Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
Meditations was Marcus Aurelius’ private journal — a set of self-directed exercises for keeping his judgment steady while running an empire: writing to himself, rehearsing the day’s difficult people, separating events from his opinions about them, and remembering how small and brief it all is. The strongest evidence for these is their direct line into cognitive behavioral therapy and into expressive-writing and self-distancing research. - Premeditate the difficult people
Each morning, expect to meet the ungrateful, the arrogant, and the dishonest — and pre-decide your response.
Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It - Give full attention to the present action
Do what you are doing completely — not while managing the past or planning the future.
The Stoic Discipline of Action - Place it in the scale of the whole
Set your problem against the size of the universe and the brevity of all human time.
Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It - Do the task in front of you, fully
Treat each present action as if it were your last, with full attention and no half-measures.
Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It - Orient action toward the common good
Before acting, ask: does this serve only me, or does it contribute to something beyond myself?
The Stoic Discipline of Action - See the shared humanity in difficult people
When someone frustrates you, remind yourself they are part of the same rational whole — and act from that.
Sympatheia — the Stoic Practice of Universal Interconnection - Train your faculty of assent
Practice pausing between an impression (a thought, feeling, or perception) and your assent to it.
The Inner Citadel
Related concerns
- Marcus Aurelius Difficult People
Each morning, expect to meet the ungrateful, the arrogant, and the dishonest — and pre-decide your response.
Premeditate the difficult people
- Marcus Aurelius Attention
Treat each present action as if it were your last, with full attention and no half-measures.
Do the task in front of you, fully
- Rational Animal Marcus Aurelius
Before acting, check both: is this rational (consistent with reason and reality)? And is it social (does it serve others)?
Act as a rational social animal — remember your dual nature
- How Marcus Aurelius Journaled
Meditations was Marcus Aurelius’ private journal — a set of self-directed exercises for keeping his judgment steady while running an empire: writing to himself, rehearsing the day’s difficult people, separating events from his opinions about them, and remembering how small and brief it all is. The strongest evidence for these is their direct line into cognitive behavioral therapy and into expressive-writing and self-distancing research.
- Marcus Aurelius Gratitude
Regularly recall, by name, the people and gifts that made you who you are.
Account for what you owe others
- Marcus Aurelius Interconnection
Sympatheia — from the Greek for "feeling together" — is the Stoic view that all rational beings are parts of one interconnected whole, like limbs of a single body. Marcus Aurelius returns to it repeatedly to ground his ethics: because we are all part of one thing, harm to others is harm to yourself, and isolation is a form of philosophical amputation. As a practice, it extends the view from above into ethics: you see not just your smallness but your connection.
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