Coaching practices for Motivational Interviewing During a Big Change

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• They say they want to change but they’re clearly half-in, half-out, and I can’t tell whether it’s that the change doesn’t matter enough to them or that they just don’t believe they could actually pull it off.
• Every time I lay out for someone all the reasons they should change, they just argue back for staying exactly as they are
• They tell me what kind of parent or partner they want to be, and it’s miles from how they’re actually living
• I keep treating every change as a referendum on whether I want it badly enough, white-knuckling my way through
• My motivation for this keeps fading because it’s all external

Practices that may help

1. Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
   Motivational interviewing (MI) is a collaborative conversation style that strengthens a person’s own motivation for change by drawing out their reasons rather than supplying them. Meta-analyses find small-to-moderate effects across health behaviors — modest on average, but reliably better than confrontational or advice-giving styles, which can backfire.
2. Scale importance and confidence with the readiness ruler
   Ask “On a 0–10 scale, how ready are you?” — then ask why not lower.
   Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
3. Evoke change talk instead of supplying it
   Ask questions that lead the person to voice their own reasons for changing.
   Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
4. Develop discrepancy between values and behavior
   Gently hold up the gap between what the person wants and what they’re doing.
   Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
5. Design the experiment as an environmental probe
   Test one specific context change rather than your willpower.
   Tiny Experiments: Testing Change Without Committing to It
6. Practice self-reevaluation to build a new self-image
   Imagine how you will think and feel about yourself once you have changed — and how you’ll feel if you don’t.
   The Transtheoretical Model of Change, Made Practical
7. Use temporal landmarks to create psychological fresh starts
   New week, new month, new year, or any personally meaningful date can function as a psychological reset that boosts motivation to change.
   The Habit Discontinuity Effect
8. Apply foot-in-the-door to support positive behavior change
   A small initial behavior commitment is a proven bridge to larger, lasting change.
   The Foot-in-the-Door Technique, Made Practical
9. Apply the experiential processes early, behavioral ones later
   Use consciousness-raising and emotional arousal early; counter-conditioning and stimulus control after you commit.
   The Transtheoretical Model of Change, Made Practical
10. Use a life transition to break old environment-behavior links
    Major context changes (a move, a new job) create a rare window where old habits are disrupted and new ones are easier to form.
    Environment Design for Behavior Change

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