Coaching practices for Narrative Goal Setting
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I have this stirring picture of the life I want but no idea how to turn it into anything I can actually do
- When someone I’m coaching brings me a topic, we just end up circling it and venting
- My to-do list just keeps swelling with everything that could be done, and with no clear picture of what "done" even looks like at the end, I have no way to tell what actually deserves to be on it.
- I’m all in on this plan and the success story in my head is so vivid I can already taste it
- I set a clear direction for my life a while back, but I’ve changed since then and the old plan has started to feel like an obligation I’m failing rather than something I still want
Practices that may help
- Translate the narrative into domain-specific goals
Break the future-life story into one concrete goal per life domain.
The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self - Clarify the Goal with precision
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Think in scenarios and stories, not task lists
Describe your ideal outcome for a period as a short narrative before breaking it into actions.
Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical - Run a pre-mortem to interrupt forward narrative construction
Before committing to a plan, imagine it failed completely — then generate the most plausible story of why.
The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories - Periodic life-crafting refresh
Revisit and revise your best-possible-life narrative every 6–12 months as your context changes.
The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self - Use learning goals instead of performance goals on novel tasks
When the skill is new, a "figure out how to do X" goal outperforms "achieve X by date."
Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire - Sidestep the SMART pitfalls
Use SMART to clarify execution — not to shrink your ambition or freeze your goal.
SMART Goals That Actually Move - One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute
A goal that cannot be stated on a single page is too vague to be evaluated or acted on.
The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work - Write vivid imagined future scenes
Extend your life story into the future with specific, felt scenes — not just goals.
Narrative Identity, Made Practical - Make stretch goals specific, not just big
A stretch goal must be specific and measurable to trigger the mechanisms that make it work.
Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire
Related concerns
- Communication Goal Setting
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
Clarify the Goal with precision
- Goal Setting That Works
Aim where hitting ~70% is a strong result, so comfort means you aimed too low.
Calibrate stretch with a target score
- Concrete Goal Setting
When the skill is new, a "figure out how to do X" goal outperforms "achieve X by date."
Use learning goals instead of performance goals on novel tasks
- How To Make A Goal Specific
A stretch goal must be specific and measurable to trigger the mechanisms that make it work.
Make stretch goals specific, not just big
- How To Set A Clear Goal
Replace “get fit” with a single, concrete target you could photograph or count.
Specific — name the exact behavior or result
- Specific Goal Statement
A stretch goal must be specific and measurable to trigger the mechanisms that make it work.
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