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  • I eat lunch at my desk alone most days and let weeks slip by without really seeing anyone, telling myself I’m too busy
  • I keep noticing that two people I know should really meet
  • I keep noticing that two people I know from totally different corners of my life really ought to meet
  • I only ever reach out to people when I suddenly need something from them, and it always feels mercenary because it is
  • One-on-one keeps falling apart the second the other person gets busy

Practices that may help

  1. Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
    Keith Ferrazzi’s approach treats networking as ongoing generosity rather than transactional deal-making: connect people, share knowledge, follow through, and show real interest. The evidence base is largely practitioner experience and case studies — honest about what it is — but the underlying principles align with well-studied reciprocity and social capital research.
  2. Fill your social calendar intentionally
    Treat every meal, coffee, and event as a relationship-building opportunity and schedule them as such.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  3. Become the connector in every room
    Make it your personal brand to know who should meet whom.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  4. Make cross-cluster introductions
    Introduce two people from different clusters who genuinely benefit from meeting.
    The Strength of Weak Ties
  5. Build the network before you need it
    Invest in relationships continuously so you have real capital when a crisis or opportunity arrives.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  6. Join a small accountability group
    Report to a small group rather than one person to add redundancy and social proof.
    Accountability Partners
  7. Invest in shared social networks
    Spend time with people who affirm and are connected to both of you as a couple.
    Relationship Maintenance Behaviors
  8. Follow up every meaningful interaction
    Send a specific, timely follow-up after every conversation that matters.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  9. Map your network clusters
    Draw out the distinct social worlds you move in to find where your bridges are thin.
    The Strength of Weak Ties
  10. Build a personal board of advisers
    Curate a small group of diverse, trusted people who know your work and challenge your thinking.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network

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