Coaching practices for Non Dual Awareness During a Big Change

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  • When a big emotion hits, it becomes the whole world
  • I keep straining to "get into" a meditative state like awareness is something I have to switch on and aim
  • When a feeling takes me over I become it completely
  • Whatever I touch in my morning sit completely evaporates the second real life starts, and the calm stays locked in "meditation time"
  • I keep selling this change as a clear win and can’t understand why people are dragging their feet

Practices that may help

  1. Recognize aware presence within strong emotion
    When a strong emotion arises, shift to noticing the awareness in which the emotion appears rather than being swept by it.
    Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
  2. Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
    Non-dual awareness is a mode of consciousness in which attention is no longer exclusively identified with the contents of experience (thoughts, sensations, feelings) but rests as the open, aware space in which those contents appear. Loch Kelly’s "effortless mindfulness" approach uses short recognition exercises to shift into this mode; research on the broader open-monitoring family of practices finds reductions in anxiety and rumination, though non-dual awareness itself is a newer research area with limited controlled trials.
  3. Glimpse practice: a 10-second recognition of aware space
    Pause, drop the question "What am I aware of?" and simply notice that awareness is already on.
    Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
  4. Notice the noticer: find the observing awareness
    Shift attention from what you are noticing to the awareness that is doing the noticing.
    The Witness Stance
  5. Small glimpses, many times — the micro-dose delivery model
    Train non-dual awareness through many brief touches across the day rather than long sittings.
    Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
  6. Name the loss the adaptive challenge requires
    Explicitly acknowledge what people must give up — not just what they will gain.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
  7. Get on the balcony
    Regularly step back from the action to see the system — not just your corner of it.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
  8. The last chance before a transition
    Before a major life change, fully inhabit what is ending, rather than only anticipating what comes next.
    The Last Time Meditation
  9. Expanding to panoramic awareness
    Deliberately widen attention from its usual narrow focal point to include the full field of sensory experience simultaneously.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  10. Advanced noting — noting the act of noting itself
    Turn attention to the process of noting itself, observing who is doing the labeling and whether the "noter" is also a mental event.
    Noting Practice, Made Practical

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