Coaching practices for Passing on What You Know
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep launching into explanations assuming people are starting from where I picture them, and I’m forever either talking over their heads or boring them with stuff they already know
- I’m starting to catch my parents’ exact habits and reactions coming out of me without my ever choosing them, and it makes me wonder what I’m passing on to the people around me by sheer default rather than on purpose.
- When I’m handed something past what I actually know, I nod and act like I’ve got it rather than admit the gap, then scramble in secret to cover
- Someone asks me a question I don’t actually have the answer to, and I feel the pull to bluff something confident rather than admit the gap
- I walk into the same situation already knowing exactly how it goes, so I stop actually looking
Practices that may help
- Ask what the audience already knows before explaining
Probe prior knowledge explicitly rather than assuming it.
The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach - Legacy audit: mapping what you are passing on
Inventory the beliefs, behaviors, and structures you are transmitting — not just the ones you intend to.
The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life - Be transparent about your competence limits
Name what you can do, what you can’t, and what you’ll need to learn — before you are found out.
The Trust Triangle - Say "I don’t know" when you genuinely don’t
Admitting the limits of your knowledge signals intellectual honesty and raises long-term credibility.
The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical - Fresh-eyes inquiry: "What if I knew nothing about this?"
Before engaging a familiar situation, ask what you would notice if you were seeing it for the first time.
Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical - Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action
Spend extended time watching an expert perform — close observation transfers more than their verbal explanations.
Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain - Write the wisdom you have earned — for someone specific
Name what you now know that you wish you had known earlier, and write it for a person you love.
The Legacy Letter: Writing What You Want to Leave Behind - Work backwards from what the learner needs to do
Start with the decision or action the learner must take, then trace back only to the knowledge that serves it.
The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach - The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach
The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias in which knowing something makes it genuinely hard to imagine not knowing it — causing experts to communicate at a level that loses their audience. Chip and Dan Heath popularized the concept in Made to Stick; the underlying effect is well documented in psychology, though cures require deliberate practice. - Use what you couldn’t teach as your study list
The moments you fumbled while teaching are exactly what to go back and learn.
The Protege Effect: Learn It Better by Teaching It
Related concerns
- Behavior Over Knowledge
Design a small experiment that would confirm or disconfirm the principle you just derived.
Test your updated model in new situations
- Colleague Making Up Excuses For Lack Of Knowledge
Probe prior knowledge explicitly rather than assuming it.
Ask what the audience already knows before explaining
- The Curse Of Knowledge Why Experts Struggle To Teach After A Loss
The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias in which knowing something makes it genuinely hard to imagine not knowing it — causing experts to communicate at a level that loses their audience. Chip and Dan Heath popularized the concept in Made to Stick; the underlying effect is well documented in psychology, though cures require deliberate practice.
- Why Experts Are Bad Teachers
The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias in which knowing something makes it genuinely hard to imagine not knowing it — causing experts to communicate at a level that loses their audience. Chip and Dan Heath popularized the concept in Made to Stick; the underlying effect is well documented in psychology, though cures require deliberate practice.
- Admitting You Don T Know
Say 'I don’t know’ clearly — it raises the quality of the conversation and your decisions.
Admit uncertainty out loud, especially in your own domain
- Curse Of Knowledge
The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias in which knowing something makes it genuinely hard to imagine not knowing it — causing experts to communicate at a level that loses their audience. Chip and Dan Heath popularized the concept in Made to Stick; the underlying effect is well documented in psychology, though cures require deliberate practice.
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