Coaching practices for Behavior Over Knowledge
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I draw a neat conclusion from a single experience and then just treat it as settled truth
- I keep launching into explanations assuming people are starting from where I picture them, and I’m forever either talking over their heads or boring them with stuff they already know
- I can’t tell anymore which of the things I “know” I actually understand versus just talk about confidently
- Someone asks me a question I don’t actually have the answer to, and I feel the pull to bluff something confident rather than admit the gap
- People keep asking me how I just know the right call in my work, and I freeze
Practices that may help
- Test your updated model in new situations
Design a small experiment that would confirm or disconfirm the principle you just derived.
Kolb’s Experiential Learning Cycle: Learning by Doing and Reflecting - Ask what the audience already knows before explaining
Probe prior knowledge explicitly rather than assuming it.
The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach - Feeling of Knowing: Why Your Confidence Misleads You
The feeling of knowing (FOK) is a metacognitive judgment about whether you would recognize or recall information you cannot currently retrieve — the "I know it but can’t say it" experience. Janet Metcalfe’s research shows FOK judgments are often accurate for recognition but systematically overestimate actual recall ability, leading learners to stop studying material they feel they know but cannot actually retrieve. - Map your actual circle honestly
Distinguish what you know deeply from what you know superficially, and what you only think you know.
Circle of Competence - Say "I don’t know" when you genuinely don’t
Admitting the limits of your knowledge signals intellectual honesty and raises long-term credibility.
The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical - Elicit your own tacit knowledge by working through cases
Use concrete case analysis to surface the implicit rules you already follow but cannot state.
Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain - The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach
The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias in which knowing something makes it genuinely hard to imagine not knowing it — causing experts to communicate at a level that loses their audience. Chip and Dan Heath popularized the concept in Made to Stick; the underlying effect is well documented in psychology, though cures require deliberate practice. - Update the map from real feedback
When reality contradicts your model, revise the model — not your description of reality.
The Map Is Not the Territory - FOK-guided restudy allocation
Spend more study time on items where FOK is high but recall is low — not on items where both are high.
Feeling of Knowing: Why Your Confidence Misleads You - Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action
Spend extended time watching an expert perform — close observation transfers more than their verbal explanations.
Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
Related concerns
- Metacognition Knowing What You Actually Know At Work
Metacognition is thinking about your own thinking — monitoring what you understand, judging how well you know it, and adjusting your approach in response. Research links accurate metacognition to better learning and decisions, but it also shows people are systematically overconfident, so the practical work is calibration: closing the gap between what you feel you know and what you can actually do.
- Passing On What You Know
Probe prior knowledge explicitly rather than assuming it.
Ask what the audience already knows before explaining
- Admitting You Don T Know
Say 'I don’t know’ clearly — it raises the quality of the conversation and your decisions.
Admit uncertainty out loud, especially in your own domain
- Asked To Secretly Obtain Coworkers Knowledge Before He Gets Fired
Reveal interests (not your bottom line) so both sides can find the better deal.
Share information to unlock value
- Colleague Making Up Excuses For Lack Of Knowledge
Probe prior knowledge explicitly rather than assuming it.
- Curse Of Knowledge
The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias in which knowing something makes it genuinely hard to imagine not knowing it — causing experts to communicate at a level that loses their audience. Chip and Dan Heath popularized the concept in Made to Stick; the underlying effect is well documented in psychology, though cures require deliberate practice.
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