Coaching practices for Pre Suasion Cialdini

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  • When I’m trying to bring someone around, they treat me as an outsider pushing my own agenda
  • When I genuinely don’t know the right move, I find myself just doing whatever people like me seem to be doing
  • I tend to drop the whole big request on someone cold, all at once, and they balk
  • I open with the big request and watch it get shot down, and afterward I notice the people who got me to commit started with something tiny I could easily say yes to
  • I notice I say yes far more easily to people I happen to like, and I want to understand that pull

Practices that may help

  1. Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
    Pre-suasion, Robert Cialdini’s term, is the practice of directing attention to a concept or feeling immediately before a message so that the audience is primed to receive it favorably. The core finding is that what people are thinking about just before a message reshapes how they interpret it — making the moment before you speak as important as the message itself.
  2. Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
    Robert Cialdini identified six near-universal levers of persuasion — reciprocity, commitment and consistency, social proof, authority, liking, and scarcity — that bias people toward saying yes. They’re drawn from decades of social-psychology research and field studies; the principles are well established even though individual effect sizes vary by context.
  3. Activate unity — shared identity before the message
    Establish genuine shared identity with your audience before presenting your position.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  4. Social proof
    People look to what similar others are doing to decide what’s correct, especially under uncertainty.
    Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
  5. Elicit a small consistency cue before the main ask
    Get a small, genuine agreement or self-description before the main request — people act consistently with what they’ve said.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  6. Commitment and consistency
    Get a small, voluntary commitment first; people then act to stay consistent with it.
    Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
  7. Liking
    We say yes to people we like — and similarity, compliments, and cooperation grow liking.
    Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
  8. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  9. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  10. Apply door-in-the-face for prosocial or charitable asks
    The technique was originally tested in a prosocial context and works especially well when both parties share values.
    The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical

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