Coaching practices for Problem Reframing Solving the Right Problem First as a Caregiver

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I’ve been killing myself trying to fix this, and it’s slowly dawning on me that the lever isn’t even in my hands
  • I keep fixing the thing right in front of me and the same trouble just keeps coming back in a new shape, which makes me think I’ve only been swatting at the surface
  • My mind is locked onto one way of seeing this and I literally cannot picture another angle
  • The problem I’m chasing is still this big blurry "make it better" cloud, and every time I try to start I spin out because I’ve never pinned down the one sharp thing I’m actually trying to solve for whom.
  • The second a problem lands my gut reaction is "of course, this is just me, I can’t handle anything"

Practices that may help

  1. Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
    Problem reframing means deliberately reconsidering what problem you are actually trying to solve before generating solutions. Min Basadur’s work on creative problem-solving shows that the framing you start with strongly constrains the solutions you find — changing the framing often unlocks solutions that were invisible under the original definition.
  2. Map who actually owns the problem
    Identify whose problem it truly is before investing in a solution — the framing often changes when you name the real owner.
    Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
  3. Climb the why–why ladder
    Ask "why is this a problem?" repeatedly to reveal the higher-level goal your current framing may be missing.
    Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
  4. Reverse the problem to break fixation
    Ask the opposite question ("How could we make this worse?") to escape the constraints of the original framing.
    Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
  5. Define — frame the right problem
    Synthesize your research into a single, sharp problem statement before solving.
    Design Thinking, Step by Step
  6. Build a positive problem orientation
    Treat problems as normal, solvable challenges rather than signs of personal failure.
    Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical
  7. Adopt a "not-knowing" stance before problem-solving
    Delay solution-generation by first articulating what you genuinely do not know about a problem.
    Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical
  8. Use Plan B: the three-step collaborative conversation
    Empathize with the child’s concern, share yours, and invite them to solve it together.
    Collaborative Problem Solving (Ross Greene)
  9. Listen before diagnosing
    Resist the urge to solve until you can restate the problem in terms the other person agrees with.
    The Trust Equation, Made Practical
  10. Import a frame from a different domain
    Describe your problem as if it were a challenge in an unrelated field, then steal the solutions from that field.
    Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First

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