Coaching practices for Prospect Theory Messaging

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I pitched it the way it excites me
  • My pitch keeps falling flat with certain people, and I’m starting to think it’s because I’m always selling the exciting upside to someone who only really cares about not losing what they already have.
  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • I keep pitching people on what they’d gain and it just slides right off them
  • I keep making what feels to me like an obviously compelling case and watching it bounce right off this person

Practices that may help

  1. Match your message frame to the audience’s motivation type
    Promotion-focused audiences respond to gains; prevention-focused ones respond to avoiding losses.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  2. Frame the goal as prevention or promotion
    Match the message to whether the person is chasing gains or guarding against losses.
    The Framing Effect
  3. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  4. Frame what inaction costs, not what action gains
    Describe the cost of not acting rather than the benefit of acting — the brain weights the former more heavily.
    The Loss Frame: How Framing Shapes Decisions
  5. Communicate across value-system differences
    Translate your message into the motivational language of the person you’re trying to reach.
    Spiral Dynamics, Made Practical
  6. Socialise your values and expectations to reduce hidden motivation barriers
    Others’s expectations and transmitted values shape whether you believe you belong in a domain — making implicit messages explicit clears hidden motivation blocks.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  7. The Loss Frame: How Framing Shapes Decisions
    Yes, and substantially. Prospect theory (Kahneman & Tversky) established that people feel losses about twice as intensely as equivalent gains, so a message framed around what you stand to lose tends to be more motivating than one framed around what you stand to gain — especially for risk-averse decisions. The effect is real and well-replicated, though its size depends on the stakes, the audience, and the domain.
  8. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  9. Diagnose which route your audience is on before you speak
    Check motivation and capacity before choosing how to frame your message.
    Elaboration Likelihood Model, Made Practical
  10. Adapt to Expressives: lead with energy, vision, and big picture
    With high-assertiveness, high-responsiveness people, match their enthusiasm and connect to the larger story.
    Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate

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