Coaching practices for Radical Choice Philosophy
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- There’s a decision I keep half-defending with a fog of "well, the circumstances, the other people, what else could I have done"
- I’m facing a real decision and I realize I’m about to choose what my family or my role or "what one does" expects of me, not what I actually value
- When a genuinely open choice is in front of me
- I describe my life in "I have to" and "I have no choice," and it lets me off the hook
- I’m agonizing over this choice like it’s carved in stone and I can never come back from it, paralyzed by a downside that has me frozen
Practices that may help
- Existentialism and Radical Choice
Jean-Paul Sartre’s existentialism holds that human beings have no fixed nature — "existence precedes essence" — and are therefore radically free to define themselves through their choices. The practical implication is that you cannot hide behind role, instinct, or circumstance: you are always already choosing, including when you tell yourself you have no choice. This is philosophical rather than clinical; its overlap with ACT and CBT is real but indirect. - Take radical responsibility for your choices
Own every choice completely — including its unintended consequences and the unchosen conditions within which you chose.
Existentialism and Radical Choice - Choose authentically — from your own values, not from expectation
Make choices that reflect your actual values rather than the role others have assigned you.
Existentialism and Radical Choice - Sit with the anxiety of freedom
When the weight of choice produces vertigo, use it as a signal — not a problem to escape.
Existentialism and Radical Choice - Radical Acceptance, Made Practical
Radical acceptance, taught by Tara Brach and rooted in dialectical behavior therapy, means fully acknowledging reality as it is — including pain you cannot change — instead of fighting it. The point is not approval or giving up; it is to stop the extra suffering that resistance adds on top of the original pain. Acceptance-based skills are well-established in clinical practice (DBT, ACT); RAIN is a practitioner framework for applying them. - Radical Candor, Made Practical
Kim Scott’s radical candor is the combination of two things at once: caring personally about the person and challenging them directly. Drop the caring and you get obnoxious aggression; drop the challenge and you get ruinous empathy or manipulative insincerity. It’s a practitioner framework from her time at Google and Apple, not a tested protocol, though it rhymes with research on candor and trust. - Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
Radical Openness is the central skill of Radically Open DBT (RO-DBT), a treatment developed by Thomas Lynch for people who suffer not from impulsivity but from overcontrol — excessive self-restraint, rigidity, and difficulty expressing emotions or receiving feedback. The core practice is developing genuine willingness to be influenced by new information and other people, rather than protecting existing beliefs and behavioral patterns. - Spot bad faith in yourself
Notice when you are treating yourself as a thing determined by role, instinct, or expectation — and claim the choice.
Existentialism and Radical Choice - Check reversibility before you fear the downside
Most decisions are reversible; reserve maximum caution for the few that aren’t.
The Regret-Minimization Framework - Act as if sages were watching — the practice of the philosophical community
Before any action, ask: would a person I genuinely respect — who embodies the values I aspire to — approve of this?
Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises
Related concerns
- Authentic Choice Sartre
Make choices that reflect your actual values rather than the role others have assigned you.
Choose authentically — from your own values, not from expectation
- Anxiety Of Freedom Sartre
When the weight of choice produces vertigo, use it as a signal — not a problem to escape.
Sit with the anxiety of freedom
- Bad Faith Sartre
Notice when you are treating yourself as a thing determined by role, instinct, or expectation — and claim the choice.
Spot bad faith in yourself
- Existential Responsibility Practice
Own every choice completely — including its unintended consequences and the unchosen conditions within which you chose.
Take radical responsibility for your choices
- Existentialism And Radical Choice As A Caregiver
Jean-Paul Sartre’s existentialism holds that human beings have no fixed nature — "existence precedes essence" — and are therefore radically free to define themselves through their choices. The practical implication is that you cannot hide behind role, instinct, or circumstance: you are always already choosing, including when you tell yourself you have no choice. This is philosophical rather than clinical; its overlap with ACT and CBT is real but indirect.
- Existentialism And Radical Choice As A Parent
Jean-Paul Sartre’s existentialism holds that human beings have no fixed nature — "existence precedes essence" — and are therefore radically free to define themselves through their choices. The practical implication is that you cannot hide behind role, instinct, or circumstance: you are always already choosing, including when you tell yourself you have no choice. This is philosophical rather than clinical; its overlap with ACT and CBT is real but indirect.
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