Coaching practices for Reduce Performance Anxiety Affirmation
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- I keep telling myself "I’m great at this, I’ve got this" right before the thing I’m scared of, and it somehow makes me feel worse
- Walking into this test I can feel the weight of proving that people like me can do it, and that pressure eats up so much of my head that I choke on the very thing I’m most afraid of confirming about my group.
- Before any big evaluation my whole sense of worth narrows down to how I’ll perform in that one room, and if I bomb it I feel like I’m worthless as a person
- I’ve got a big evaluation looming and I can already feel myself bracing to defend my whole worth on it
- Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank
Practices that may help
- Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability
Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Use values affirmation to counter stereotype threat
When your social identity is under threat, a brief values reflection can protect performance.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations
Before a threatening evaluation, write for 10 minutes about a value that matters to you — unrelated to the domain being evaluated.
Power Posing Revisited - Write about a value that matters to you
Before a stressful or threatening situation, spend five minutes writing about a value that is genuinely important to you.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone - Write about your worries before a high-stakes performance
Offload performance anxiety by writing it out in full immediately before the event.
Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical - Fade reassurance-seeking
Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
Mastery Experiences - Debrief after performance without letting relief collapse the strategy
After a successful performance, acknowledge the outcome honestly without abandoning the preparation habit that produced it.
Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical - Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
Power Posing Revisited
Related concerns
- How To Get Over Performance Anxiety Ed
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
- Affirmation Backfire Low Self Esteem
Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability
- Anxiety Into Preparation
Mentally walk through what could go wrong — then convert each potential failure into a specific preparation action.
Use reflective simulation to convert anxiety into planning
- Claude Steele Self Affirmation
Claude Steele’s self-affirmation theory holds that people protect their sense of moral adequacy by reflecting on values that are genuinely important to them — and that doing so reduces defensive reactions to threats. The evidence for reducing defensiveness and improving openness to threatening information is solid; claims that brief affirmations broadly raise achievement are more contested.
- How Self Affirmation Works
Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
- How To Get Over Performance Anxiety
Offload performance anxiety by writing it out in full immediately before the event.
Write about your worries before a high-stakes performance
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