Coaching practices for Safety After Exposure Pain
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I sit with the sensation and nothing bad happens, but my brain never seems to draw the conclusion from it
- The second I feel the pain coming on I tense up and brace against it in dread, and I can feel that very fear cranking it louder
- When I make myself face the scary scenario I end up still wound up and rattled afterward, and then I dread doing it again
- The moment I let myself feel the tight, awful sensation, it swallows me whole and I can’t find my way back out
- The raw panic has actually eased, but underneath it these convictions are still lodged in me
Practices that may help
- Follow tracking with explicit safety reassurance
After a tracking session, offer the brain a direct safety message about what it just observed.
Somatic Tracking, Made Practical - Approach the pain sensation with curiosity, not bracing
Turn toward the pain with the attitude of a curious scientist rather than a fearful sufferer.
Somatic Tracking, Made Practical - Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
Worry Exposure, Made Practical - Brief touch and return — the basic pendulation move
Direct attention briefly toward a difficult sensation, then consciously return to your resource — stay only as long as you can track it without flooding.
Pendulation, Made Practical - Process cognitions after an exposure session
After each imaginal exposure, discuss what came up — the stuck meanings and beliefs — not just the distress level.
Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence - Applying the body scan to chronic or acute pain
Use the body scan to observe pain as sensation rather than threat, reducing the secondary suffering of pain-related fear.
Body Scan Meditation, Made Practical - Gradually drop safety behaviors
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical - Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Run exposures without safety behaviors
Do induction exercises while deliberately leaving out the coping props you normally rely on.
Interoceptive Exposure for Panic - Use controlled breathing to manage arousal during exposure
A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
Related concerns
- Dropping Safety Behaviors Exposure Therapy
Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
Eliminate safety behaviors
- Panic Exposure Behavior
A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
Use controlled breathing to manage arousal during exposure
- Safety Behaviors Exposure Therapy
Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
Gradually drop safety behaviors
- Alan Gordon Pain Reprocessing
Somatic tracking, developed by Alan Gordon as the central technique of Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT), involves observing bodily sensations — especially pain — with open, curious, non-fearful attention. The goal is to change the brain’s interpretation of safe signals from dangerous to neutral, which can reduce or eliminate neuroplastic pain. A 2021 randomized controlled trial (the BOULDER study) found PRT produced significant pain reduction vs placebo and usual care for chronic back pain, with 66% of PRT participants reporting being pain-free or nearly pain-free.
- Anxiety Crutches
Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
Drop the safety behaviors
- Brief Exposure Resource
A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
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