Coaching practices for Scaling Questions Sfbt

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• When someone asks how I’m doing I just say "okay" or "overwhelmed" and it carries no real information
• I read "thousands affected" and feel a pang, then "hundreds of thousands" and feel that exact same pang
• Everything I come up with sits in this safe middle
• My guesses never seem to get any better because I make them, find out the real answer, and then just move on
• I can see exactly where I want to get to, but looking at the distance between here and there just makes the whole thing feel hopeless

Practices that may help

1. Scaling Questions
   Use a 0–10 scale to make progress visible, identify what’s working, and define one small next step.
   Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
2. Translate scale into numbers before you respond
   Before reacting to any quantity-based problem, convert the scale into a concrete number you can compare.
   Scope Insensitivity: Why Scale Doesn’t Change Your Feelings
3. Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
   Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT), developed by Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg, directs attention to what already works — client strengths, past successes, and desired futures — rather than to analyzing problems. Meta-analyses report small-to-moderate positive effects across a range of presenting issues, with particular strength in behavioral problems and depression in adult populations.
4. Modify and Magnify
   Ask: what happens if you make an element bigger, smaller, faster, slower, stronger, or weaker?
   SCAMPER: A Systematic Creativity Technique
5. Scope Insensitivity: Why Scale Doesn’t Change Your Feelings
   Scope insensitivity is the tendency to react with nearly the same emotional intensity to problems of vastly different scale — to care about 2,000 birds in danger nearly as much as 200,000 birds. Identified by Kahneman and colleagues, it is one of the clearest demonstrations that moral and decision-relevant emotions respond to the image of a problem, not its magnitude. The bias has strong empirical support and has important implications for charitable giving, risk assessment, and resource allocation.
6. Track your estimates and calibrate
   Compare your Fermi estimates to actual figures when you can, and use the gap to improve future estimates.
   Fermi Estimation
7. Confidence Scaling After the Miracle Question
   Once the miracle is described, scale how confident the person is that they can take one small step toward it.
   The Miracle Question: Designing Your Life Without the Problem
8. Sanity-check against known extremes
   Test your estimate against the clearly too-high and too-low bounds to calibrate your range.
   Fermi Estimation
9. The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
   The SBI model (Situation–Behavior–Impact), developed by the Center for Creative Leadership, structures feedback by anchoring it to an observable moment, describing the behavior seen rather than inferring motive, and naming the actual impact. This reduces defensiveness and attribution errors; the model is established clinical practice in leadership development, though direct RCT comparisons to other feedback approaches are limited.
10. Check units and scales for consistency
    Catch order-of-magnitude errors by ensuring your units are consistent across the estimate.
    Fermi Estimation

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