Coaching practices for Self as Context Observing Self for My Teenager
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- My thoughts feel like they ARE me
- I want my child to carry a solid sense of who they are even when I’m not there to remind them
- I narrate everything as "I AM stressed, I AM anxious," like it’s the whole truth of me, and I want to learn to say it more like "there’s tightness in my chest, I notice fear"
- When a wave of fear or anger hits, it swallows me whole and I react before I even know I’ve reacted
- I’ve decided I just am this
Practices that may help
- Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical
Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance. - Notice the noticer
Find the part of you that is observing the thought — and recognize it is not the thought.
Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical - Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time
Consistently reflect back who the child is becoming, not just what they’re doing.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) - Notice and name experience from observer position
Describe what is happening inside in the third person of the observer, not the first person of the content.
Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical - Return to the observer during difficult emotional moments
When flooded by emotion, briefly step to the observing perspective before responding.
Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical - Self-as-context (the observing self)
Notice the steady "you" that observes thoughts and feelings without being defined by them.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical - Find the continuous self beneath changing contents
Recognize the perspective that has been present across every chapter of your life.
Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical - Track self-stability over time
Notice when your sense of who you are shifts dramatically with context, mood, or others’ opinions — this instability is itself informative.
Self-Concept Clarity, Made Practical - Build mindsight by reflecting inner experience
Describe your own inner experience in everyday conversation to build the child’s "mind-seeing" capacity.
The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson) - Witness journaling
Write about today’s events as if you are observing yourself from the outside.
Svadhyaya: Self-Study as a Daily Practice
Related concerns
- Self As Context Observing Self As A Parent
Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance.
- Self As Context Observing Self At Work
Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance.
- Self As Context Observing Self During A Big Change
Notice when your sense of who you are shifts dramatically with context, mood, or others’ opinions — this instability is itself informative.
Track self-stability over time
- Self As Context Observing Self In A New Job
Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance.
- Self As Context Observing Self When Starting Out
Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance.
- What Is Self As Context In Act
Self-as-context is an ACT concept, developed by Steven Hayes, that distinguishes the stable "you that notices" from the thoughts, feelings, and stories that pass through your mind. Practicing it reduces the threat of painful self-stories by shifting identity from what you think and feel to the perspective that observes them. Support is theoretically strong within ACT; direct experimental isolation of this process is more limited than for defusion or acceptance.
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