Coaching practices for Self Focused Attention

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • My attention feels welded to the inside of my own head
  • In any conversation I’m so busy watching myself
  • Once my attention locks onto the thing I’m scared of, I genuinely can’t pry it loose
  • My attention is locked into this tight little tunnel
  • Right when I’m finally locked in, my brain throws up "remember to email so-and-so," and if I act on it the focus is shattered, but if I try to ignore it the thought just gets louder and keeps tugging until I deal with it.

Practices that may help

  1. Attention training technique (ATT)
    Practice deliberately shifting attention across sounds — a drill that builds attention flexibility and reduces self-focus.
    Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
  2. Shift attention outward during social situations
    Direct your focus to what the other person is saying and feeling, not to how you appear.
    The Spotlight Effect: Why You Think Everyone Is Watching
  3. Train flexible attention
    Practise deliberately moving attention between external cues and internal experience — and back.
    Detached Mindfulness, Made Practical
  4. Expanding to panoramic awareness
    Deliberately widen attention from its usual narrow focal point to include the full field of sensory experience simultaneously.
    Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
  5. Keep an attention capture list during hyperfocus
    Write down every impulse, distraction, and off-topic idea that arises during a session rather than acting on or suppressing it.
    Hyperfocus: Directing Intense Attention to What Matters Most
  6. Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself
    Attend to where the ball goes or where force lands — not to how your arm or leg moves.
    External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
  7. Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits
    Focus further from the body (on the target, not the implement) for the largest attention benefit.
    External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
  8. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
    Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
    Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
  9. The Formula First-Session Task and Between-Session Noticing
    Assign between-session observation tasks that direct attention toward what’s already working.
    Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
  10. Selective attention to individual sounds
    Deliberately focus on one distinct sound source among several and hold attention there.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical

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