Coaching practices for Separate Fact From Belief

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• We keep arguing in circles and I’ve realized half of it is that nobody’s separated what we actually know from what we’re each just assuming
• I’m holding a belief tightly and I want to test it honestly, but I know that the second I go looking I’ll find whatever confirms it
• My beliefs are all hedged into mush
• When my friend doesn’t text back, "she didn’t reply" and "she’s mad at me" land as the same single fact
• In my head the things I’m sure of and the things I’m just guessing at all run together as one blur, so I end up treating my assumptions like hard limits

Practices that may help

1. White hat: establish the facts before opinion
   Separate what is known from what is inferred — the white hat is for data only, with no interpretation.
   Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical
2. Specify what would falsify your belief before you look at evidence
   Write down what evidence would prove you wrong before you go looking.
   Falsification Thinking
3. Make your beliefs precise enough to be wrong
   Vague claims cannot be falsified — sharpen your belief until it can be.
   Falsification Thinking
4. Identify the triggering situation
   Name exactly what happened — the objective event, not your interpretation of it.
   The Thought Record: CBT’s Core Self-Examination Tool
5. Separate facts from assumptions explicitly
   Sort what you actually know from what you’re assuming, in two visible columns.
   First-Principles Thinking, Made Usable
6. Hold beliefs as estimates, not identity commitments
   Treat each belief as a probability rather than a flag to plant.
   The Scout Mindset
7. Separate the data from the narrative you’ve built around it
   List the raw facts, then list the story you’ve layered on top — and check whether the story actually follows.
   The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
8. State your confidence level alongside your position
   "I’m about 70% confident on this" signals a reasoned estimate, not a fact claim.
   Productive Disagreement, Made Practical
9. Turn the "why" on your own assumptions
   Apply the same "why do I believe this?" scrutiny to your existing beliefs, not just new facts.
   Elaborative Interrogation: Ask "Why Is This True?"
10. Behavioral experiments to test core beliefs in vivo
    Design a real-world action that tests the core belief, then observe what actually happens.
    The Downward Arrow: Uncovering the Core Beliefs Behind Distress

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