Coaching practices for Shadow Work in a New Job

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  • Keeping up the version of me everyone expects
  • There’s one thing about me I spend enormous energy denying
  • I can talk about my feelings all day from the neck up, but the real stuff seems to be locked in my body
  • I leave work but work never leaves me
  • Someone on my team is clearly going through something heavy and I’ve just been carrying on talking deliverables like nothing’s wrong

Practices that may help

  1. Shadow Work
    Shadow work is the process of becoming aware of — and integrating — the parts of yourself you have disowned, suppressed, or never examined: the traits, impulses, and capabilities you hide from others and from yourself. Rooted in Jungian psychology, it is a clinically used framework rather than a rigorously trialed intervention; the mechanistic rationale is strong and aligns with modern emotion regulation and self-concept research.
  2. Examining the gap between persona and self
    Map who you perform for others versus who you experience yourself as in private — the gap is shadow territory.
    Shadow Work
  3. The integration letter to a disowned part
    Write directly to the trait, impulse, or capacity you most want to disown — then listen for its response.
    Shadow Work
  4. Tracking shadow material through the body
    Notice where in the body suppressed reactions live — tension, constriction, or deadness are somatic shadow clues.
    Shadow Work
  5. Use a 15-minute end-of-day planning buffer to close the day’s loops
    Before leaving work, take 15 minutes to list tomorrow’s priorities and explicitly close today’s open loops.
    The Zeigarnik Effect: How Unfinished Tasks Occupy Your Mind
  6. Show up for the person, not just the deliverable
    Acknowledge what is happening in someone’s life when it is clearly affecting them — before addressing the work.
    Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor
  7. The relationship as a shadow mirror
    Use your closest relationships as a diagnostic — what you project onto those closest to you is often what you least see in yourself.
    Shadow Work
  8. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
    Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  9. Use a body double for low-initiation tasks
    Work in the physical or virtual presence of another person to borrow their initiation momentum.
    Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem
  10. Use a shutdown ritual
    End the workday with a deliberate routine that closes open loops and declares work done.
    Deep Work, Made Practical

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