Coaching practices for Social Exchange Lmx

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My boss took a real chance on me and advocated for me, and I just took it and moved on without ever closing the loop
• There are people on my team I’ve quietly written off
• I lead a team and I’ve realized the people I lean on most are the ones who remind me of myself or are just easy to be around
• Checking off a private box does nothing for me
• I do my job competently and stay neatly inside my lane, and I sense that’s exactly why I’m read as just-a-role-filler

Practices that may help

1. Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
   Leader-member exchange theory, developed by George Graen and Mary Uhl-Bien, holds that leaders do not treat all followers the same — they develop distinct dyadic relationships ranging from high-LMX (trust, respect, mutual obligation) to low-LMX (formal, exchange-based). High-LMX relationships are consistently associated with better performance, satisfaction, and career outcomes in observational research.
2. Reciprocate when your leader invests in you
   When a leader gives you trust, opportunity, or advocacy, close the loop with visible follow-through.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
3. Deliberately expand your inner circle
   Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
4. Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
   Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
5. Pair token reinforcement with social reinforcement
   Public acknowledgment and social recognition amplify the motivating effect of token systems beyond what tokens alone provide.
   Contingency Management and Token Economies
6. Expand your role through extra-role behavior
   Voluntarily take on work beyond your formal responsibilities to signal readiness for a higher-trust relationship.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
7. Invest in the relationship before you need it
   Build relational credit through reliability and initiative, not charm or performance alone.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
8. The Rule of Reciprocity, Made Practical
   Reciprocity is a deep cross-cultural norm: people feel a strong, often uncomfortable obligation to return favors — even uninvited ones, and even when the return is disproportionately large. Cialdini documented this in his influence research and it maps onto evolutionary accounts of cooperation. It can be used to build genuine goodwill or, exploited unethically, to manufacture obligation — the difference matters and is usually detectable.
9. Build reciprocity reserves over time, not just in the moment
   Consistent, low-key generosity creates a reserve of goodwill that outlasts any single transaction.
   The Rule of Reciprocity, Made Practical
10. Give in ways that strengthen social connection
    Make your giving a moment of relationship, not a transaction.
    Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness

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