Coaching practices for Steele Affirmation Experiment

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Before any big evaluation my whole sense of worth narrows down to how I’ll perform in that one room, and if I bomb it I feel like I’m worthless as a person
• Walking into this test I can feel the weight of proving that people like me can do it, and that pressure eats up so much of my head that I choke on the very thing I’m most afraid of confirming about my group.
• I’ve tried saying the big confident lines in the mirror and they just ring hollow
• I’ve got a big evaluation looming and I can already feel myself bracing to defend my whole worth on it
• I did the scary thing and it went fine, and yet the very next time I’m right back to dreading it as if it never happened

Practices that may help

1. Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical
   Claude Steele’s self-affirmation theory holds that people protect their sense of moral adequacy by reflecting on values that are genuinely important to them — and that doing so reduces defensive reactions to threats. The evidence for reducing defensiveness and improving openness to threatening information is solid; claims that brief affirmations broadly raise achievement are more contested.
2. Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations
   Before a threatening evaluation, write for 10 minutes about a value that matters to you — unrelated to the domain being evaluated.
   Power Posing Revisited
3. Use values affirmation to counter stereotype threat
   When your social identity is under threat, a brief values reflection can protect performance.
   Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical
4. Affirmations
   Repeat chosen statements about who you are and what you’re committed to.
   The Miracle Morning, Made Practical
5. Write about a value that matters to you
   Before a stressful or threatening situation, spend five minutes writing about a value that is genuinely important to you.
   Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical
6. Reviewing the Results and Extracting the Learning
   Explicitly connect what happened to what you believed — and update the belief accordingly.
   Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
7. Survey Experiments: Testing Beliefs by Asking Others
   Test social predictions by asking a small sample of others what they actually think — instead of assuming.
   Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
8. Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability
   Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
   Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical
9. Incantations (not affirmations)
   Spoken phrases delivered with full physiology and emotion, repeated until they shift your felt sense.
   Tony Robbins’ Core Practices
10. Behavioral experiments to test core beliefs in vivo
    Design a real-world action that tests the core belief, then observe what actually happens.
    The Downward Arrow: Uncovering the Core Beliefs Behind Distress

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