Coaching practices for Steelmanning in a New Job

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I go through the motions of considering the other side and then somehow always conclude I was right all along
  • I’ve got a new hire starting and the lazy move is to just hand them whatever’s piled up in the backlog
  • I’m about to commit to this plan and I can feel how badly I want it to work
  • My whole job search is just refreshing job boards and firing off applications into the void, competing with hundreds of strangers for whatever happens to be posted
  • There’s a view I think is flat wrong, but it won’t die and lots of people hold it

Practices that may help

  1. Steelmanning
    Steelmanning — popularized by Daniel Dennett as a core intellectual virtue — means reconstructing an opposing position in its strongest, most charitable form before responding to it. It is the deliberate inverse of strawmanning. The practice is well-established in philosophy and structured debate; direct experimental evidence for its effects on reasoning quality is limited, but its mechanism is logically sound.
  2. Distinguish steelmanning from sycophancy
    Charitably interpreting a position is not the same as agreeing with it, refusing to disagree, or softening your critique to avoid conflict.
    Steelmanning
  3. Use genius mapping in onboarding
    Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
    The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
  4. Steelman objections to your own plans
    Before committing to a plan, state the strongest case against it in its most compelling form.
    Steelmanning
  5. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
    Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  6. Find what is genuinely right about positions you disagree with
    Most positions you strongly disagree with are right about something important — finding that part is intellectually obligatory.
    Steelmanning
  7. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
    Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  8. Directing — high direction for the eager novice
    With someone new and keen but unskilled, give clear, specific instruction and tight structure.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical
  9. Forming: provide clarity before connection
    In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  10. Ask: “Would I choose this today if I were starting fresh?”
    Evaluate your current situation as if you were encountering it for the first time, without sunk costs.
    Status Quo Bias — Why We Stick with the Default

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