Coaching practices for Stop Doing Other Peoples Work

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I hand work off and somehow it keeps boomeranging back onto my plate
• Someone hits a snag, brings it to me, I say "leave it with me," and somehow the task I delegated is back on my desk
• My days vanish into recurring admin that anyone could do, and the work that only I can do never gets reached
• My day fills up with other people’s pressing little asks that don’t actually need me specifically
• I technically stop working but my mind never clocks out

Practices that may help

1. Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
   When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
2. Resist upward (reverse) delegation
   Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
3. Outsource personal and business tasks with a virtual assistant
   Hand off any recurring task a written process can describe to a skilled assistant.
   Lifestyle Design, Made Practical
4. Quadrant 3: delegate it
   Urgent but not important tasks — interruptions and others’ priorities — get handed off.
   The Eisenhower Matrix, Made Practical
5. Use a shutdown ritual
   End the workday with a deliberate routine that closes open loops and declares work done.
   Deep Work, Made Practical
6. Let them (release control over others)
   When someone does something you can’t control, say "let them" and stop fighting reality.
   The Let Them Theory, Made Practical
7. Delegate the outcome, not the procedure
   Define what "done" looks like and why it matters, then leave the how to them.
   Effective Delegation, Made Practical
8. The shutdown ritual
   End the workday with a fixed routine that closes open loops.
   Time Blocking, Made Practical
9. Systematically process the backlog
   Work through old, unfinished tasks in order rather than perpetually re-triaging them.
   Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
10. Chunk your helping into dedicated time
    Concentrate giving into scheduled blocks rather than letting it interrupt your focused work.
    Give and Take: The Giver Advantage

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