Coaching practices for Strategy Person Fit

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I get that I should adjust to how different people operate, but when I try to change my whole approach it comes out stiff and fake, like I’m performing
• I keep hiring for the most impressive resume and then watching them work purely transactionally, and I want to start screening for whether someone actually believes in what we’re doing
• Everyone swears this approach is the right one and on paper it clearly is, but it just feels subtly off when I do it, like it’s cut against my grain
• I’ve quietly filed each person on my team as strong or weak, and then I’m baffled when my "strong" one flounders on something new
• I look around at the people I’ve hired and they all think exactly like me

Practices that may help

1. Style-flex without losing authenticity
   Adapt your approach to someone else’s style without abandoning your own.
   Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate
2. Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills
   Skills can be learned; shared belief cannot — filtering for Why-alignment at hiring is the highest-leverage culture move.
   Start With Why: Leading Through Purpose
3. Align your strategy with your regulatory focus for "regulatory fit"
   When your strategy matches your regulatory focus, the task feels more right and performance improves.
   Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking
4. Assess readiness task by task, not person by person
   Rate competence and commitment for the specific task in front of them, not the person overall.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
5. Build a team whose combined strengths cover all four domains
   Hire and assemble deliberately for domain coverage, not for people who think like you.
   Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
6. Get the right people on the bus before setting direction
   Prioritize who is doing the work before deciding what to do.
   Level 5 Leadership: Humility and Will in Great Leaders
7. Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate
   The Social Style Matrix, developed by Merrill and Reid, categorises people along two dimensions — assertiveness and responsiveness — producing four styles: Driver, Expressive, Analytical, and Amiable. Matching your communication approach to someone’s style reduces friction and improves collaboration. The evidence is primarily observational and practitioner-based; the model predates more rigorous personality frameworks but remains widely used in coaching and management training.
8. Learn what each person actually wants from their career and life
   Care personally means knowing the goal behind the job — not just what they’re working on, but why.
   Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor
9. Become a talent magnet: attract and deploy people at their best
   Multipliers find what people do naturally well and put them in conditions where that genius is essential.
   Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
10. Coach the person, not just the problem
    The most important thing a manager can work on is the person’s capacity to handle future problems, not just today’s.
    The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm

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