Coaching practices for Structured Autobiography

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My past feels like loose, raw fragments that don’t add up to anything, and I want to lay it out in chapters and actually write the story of each one
• My life feels like one undifferentiated blur of stuff that happened, and I can’t step back far enough to see the shape of it
• My whole life feels like a jumble of memories I’ve never laid out in one place
• The story I carry about my own life is fragmented and full of shame, and I want it written down properly somewhere outside my head
• There’s a story I tell about my past

Practices that may help

1. Write a structured autobiography by life chapter
   Divide your life into chapters and write the story of each — what happened, what you felt, what it meant.
   Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
2. Map your life in chapters
   Divide your life into named chapters to see the arc you’ve been living.
   Narrative Identity, Made Practical
3. Draw the life line
   Draw a horizontal timeline and mark the key high points, low points, and turning points of your life.
   The Life Line Exercise
4. Create a testimony document
   NET produces a written testimony of the person’s life — a document that the person and therapist co-author and that the person keeps.
   Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
5. Revise your life narrative when it limits you
   Identify and reauthor the story you tell about your past that constrains what you believe is possible.
   The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
6. Write a brief narrative of your season to make it coherent
   People who can tell a coherent story about their life stage navigate it more effectively than those who cannot.
   Seasons of Life
7. Narrative Identity, Made Practical
   Dan McAdams’ narrative identity theory holds that identity itself is a personal myth — an internalized, evolving story that integrates your past, present, and imagined future into a coherent sense of self. The structure and tone of that story (whether it moves toward redemption or contamination, agency or communion) predicts psychological well-being, and the story can be deliberately revised. Evidence is primarily observational but robustly consistent.
8. Landscape of Identity and Action Questions
   Use two question types to map both what the person DID (action) and what that reveals about who they ARE (identity).
   Narrative Therapy: Rewriting the Stories That Define You
9. Map your turning points and what they changed
   Identify the two to four moments that most fundamentally redirected the arc of your life.
   Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
10. Re-Authoring the Alternative Story
    Build a preferred story of identity by thickening the exceptions into a narrative with a plot.
    Narrative Therapy: Rewriting the Stories That Define You

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