Coaching practices for The 90 Second Rule in a New Job

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  • I go straight from one back-to-back meeting into the next with no gap, and I show up to each one still chewing on the last
  • I’ve got a new hire starting and the lazy move is to just hand them whatever’s piled up in the backlog
  • Every time someone leans over with a "got a sec?" I just drop everything and deal with it, because saying "not right now" feels rude
  • I give a routine thing
  • I let one app back in for a specific reason, but with no rules around it, it’s already crept back to whenever and wherever

Practices that may help

  1. The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
    Jill Bolte Taylor, in her neuroscience memoir, claimed that the physiological arousal of an emotion cycles through the bloodstream in about 90 seconds — and that if you don’t re-trigger it with thought, it passes. The specific "90 seconds" is a popular claim from a personal account, not a controlled finding; the underlying insight — that emotions are time-limited physiological events that we sustain by ruminating — is well-grounded in emotion science.
  2. Design transitions between tasks, not just the tasks themselves
    Build a brief transition ritual between tasks — a 5-minute buffer — so residue dissipates before the next task begins.
    Attention Residue: Why Switching Tasks Costs More Than You Think
  3. Use genius mapping in onboarding
    Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
    The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
  4. Handling external interruptions
    Use the inform–negotiate–schedule–call-back protocol to protect the sprint.
    The Pomodoro Technique, Made Practical
  5. Apply time pressure to collapse trivial task duration
    Give yourself half the usual time to complete a routine task and see how little actually suffers.
    Parkinson’s Law of Triviality: Stop Bikeshedding
  6. Use each technology for one specific purpose, with explicit constraints
    Assign every reinstated technology a specific job description, time budget, and access rule.
    The Digital Declutter, Made Practical
  7. Triage interruptions before acting on them
    When something interrupts you, categorize it as urgent-now or capture-for-later before deciding whether to switch.
    Context Switching Cost: Why Task Switching Wrecks Focus
  8. Respect the fill-order every single day — rocks before sand
    Make it a hard personal rule: no sand, no water, until a rock has been touched today.
    The Pickle Jar Theory of Time Management
  9. The 5 Second Rule, Made Practical
    Mel Robbins’ 5 Second Rule says that when you feel an instinct to act on a goal, count backward 5-4-3-2-1 and move before your brain talks you out of it. It is a practitioner technique, not a tested protocol — but it has a plausible mechanism: the countdown interrupts the hesitation loop and triggers action before deliberation can manufacture an excuse.
  10. The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
    Blanchard and Johnson’s One Minute Manager distills management to three practices: one-minute goals (clear, written, short), one-minute praisings (specific, immediate, genuine), and one-minute reprimands (immediate, behavior-specific, followed by reaffirmation). The framework is a 1982 practitioner classic, not a clinical protocol, but the mechanisms — specificity in feedback, timeliness, and the separation of behavior from character — are supported by decades of subsequent research in reinforcement and feedback theory.

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