Coaching practices for The Digital Declutter After a Loss

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  • I genuinely can’t tell anymore which apps I actually want and which ones just have me by the thumb
  • I can’t bring myself to get rid of a single thing of theirs
  • Now that the apps are gone there’s this big empty hole in my evenings, and I keep drifting toward the TV or just feeling restless and bored
  • I want to cut back but I honestly can’t tell which apps I genuinely need for life and work and which ones just snuck in and became habit
  • The break is ending and my reflex is just to reinstall everything I had before

Practices that may help

  1. Conduct a 30-day digital declutter
    Eliminate optional digital technologies for 30 days, then reintroduce only what genuinely serves your values.
    Attention Reclaiming: Digital Minimalism in Practice
  2. The Digital Declutter, Made Practical
    Cal Newport’s digital declutter is a structured 30-day break from optional technologies, followed by a selective reintroduction based on explicit values criteria. It is not a permanent technology ban but a reset that reveals what you actually want from technology versus what habit has installed. The evidence base is primarily observational and mechanistic; no large RCTs of the specific protocol exist.
  3. Use symbolic objects as tangible continuing bonds
    Keep meaningful objects that represent the person and use them consciously, not compulsively.
    Continuing Bonds in Grief, Made Practical
  4. Discover high-quality analogue leisure during the break
    The break creates space — the key is what fills it, not the absence of screens.
    The Digital Declutter, Made Practical
  5. Define which technologies are "optional" before you begin
    Map every digital tool you use and categorize each as essential, useful, or optional — the declutter targets optional only.
    The Digital Declutter, Made Practical
  6. Apply explicit values criteria before reinstating any technology
    Reinstate a technology only if it clearly serves something you genuinely value — not merely because you used to have it.
    The Digital Declutter, Made Practical
  7. Attention Reclaiming: Digital Minimalism in Practice
    Attention reclaiming means auditing which digital tools genuinely serve your values, eliminating or constraining the rest, and rebuilding the capacity for sustained focus through deliberate practice. Cal Newport’s digital minimalism framework provides the structure; the harder part is building the tolerance for silence and boredom that smartphones have eroded.
  8. Start with the why, not the closet
    Name what you are decluttering FOR before you touch a single drawer.
    Minimalism, Made Practical
  9. One in, one out
    For every new item that enters, one comparable item leaves.
    Minimalism, Made Practical
  10. Journal specifically about the relationship and what it meant
    Write in detail about who or what was lost and why it mattered — creating the record that no one else will maintain.
    Disenfranchised Grief, Made Practical

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