Coaching practices for Threat Drive Soothing System
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- I’m either anxious or chasing the next thing, full stop
- I’m too wound up to think my way calm
- I’m too wound up to reason my way calm
- Part of me is still bracing for danger even though I’m sitting somewhere perfectly safe
- I’m flooded and my thoughts are useless right now
Practices that may help
- The Three-Circle Model: Mapping Your Emotional Systems
Understand your threat, drive, and soothing systems — and learn which is overactive in your life.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Five-senses self-soothe
Deliberately engage each sense with something genuinely comforting to redirect attention and activate the soothing system.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD. - Self-soothe through the five senses
Deliberately comfort yourself through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch while the crisis peaks.
Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical - Use the orienting response to signal safety
Slowly look around the room to let the nervous system update its threat assessment.
The Freeze Response and How to Thaw It - Arm havening stroke
Slowly stroke both forearms from shoulder to elbow while keeping attention off the distress.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Reality-test a neuroception alarm
When your nervous system fires a threat signal, gently check it against present-moment evidence.
Neuroception: How Your Nervous System Reads Safety Before Your Mind Does - Build basic nervous-system regulation capacity before SSP
SSP works better — and is safer — when the nervous system already has some self-regulation capacity.
The Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP): What It Is and What the Evidence Shows - Apply defusion to reassurance-seeking urges
When you feel the urge to check or seek reassurance, defuse the urge itself, not just the content.
Defusion from Anxious Thoughts - Face havening
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
Related concerns
- Bilateral Stimulation Calming
Deliberately engage each sense with something genuinely comforting to redirect attention and activate the soothing system.
Five-senses self-soothe
- Facial Calming Touch
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
Face havening
- Self Havening Calming The Nervous System Through Touch During Conflict
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD.
- Self Soothing Touch
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
- Self Soothing Touch Anxiety
Self-havening uses slow, repetitive self-touch on the arms, face, and hands — combined with distraction or eye movements — to interrupt acute distress and lower arousal. The proposed mechanism (delta-wave induction via touch de-potentiating traumatic amygdala encodings) is plausible but not yet independently replicated at scale. As a brief self-soothing technique many people find it calming in the moment; it is not a proven clinical treatment and should not replace professional care for trauma or PTSD.
- Self Touch Calming
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
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