Coaching practices for Tobias Lundgren Act
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- I pass real suffering all day
- I keep putting this off because doing nothing feels safe and costless, and the upside of acting just isn’t lighting a fire under me
- I genuinely intend to do the thing
- Everything I’m chasing right now is for me
Practices that may help
- Values Bullseye, Made Practical
The values bullseye, developed by Tobias Lundgren within the ACT framework, is a visual exercise in which you rate how close your current behavior is to the bullseye in four life domains — work, relationships, personal growth, and leisure. It converts abstract values into a concrete gap-analysis, making it easier to choose one committed action that moves you toward the center. The exercise is part of the established ACT toolkit; direct evidence for the instrument is limited but the underlying ACT framework has substantial support. - Use flash tonglen in the moment of encountering suffering
A single in-breath of someone’s pain and an out-breath of goodwill is a complete act of tonglen.
Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending - Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical
ACT teaches you to stop fighting difficult thoughts and feelings and instead take committed action toward what you value, even while they are present. Its core processes — defusion, acceptance, contact with values, and committed action — have a substantial and growing base of randomized-trial support across many conditions. - Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending
Tonglen ("taking and sending") is a Tibetan Buddhist compassion practice in which the practitioner breathes in suffering — their own or another’s — and breathes out relief, ease, and goodwill. It works by deliberately moving toward pain rather than away from it, which gradually reduces the fear of suffering and expands the capacity for compassion. Evidence is largely clinical and mechanistic; direct RCTs on tonglen specifically are sparse, though compassion training more broadly shows meaningful effects. - The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making
Rick Rubin’s 2023 book The Creative Act presents creativity as a practice of attention — noticing, collecting, and following what genuinely interests you — rather than a performance of originality. The practices are more phenomenological than procedural: they cultivate a particular quality of awareness from which creative work emerges. Evidence is practitioner and anecdotal; the book is a distillation of experience, not a research synthesis. - Frame inaction as a loss rather than inaction
Highlighting what you lose by not acting often moves people more than highlighting what they gain by acting.
Choice Architecture, Made Practical - Committed Action, Made Practical
Committed action — a core ACT process developed by Steven Hayes — means taking concrete, repeated steps toward what you value even while discomfort is present, rather than waiting for the feeling of readiness. It is the behavioral spine of ACT, which has substantial randomized-trial support across anxiety, depression, chronic pain, and other conditions. - Set if-then implementation intentions for goal behaviors
Specify when, where, and how you’ll act — not just whether you intend to.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
Radical Openness is the central skill of Radically Open DBT (RO-DBT), a treatment developed by Thomas Lynch for people who suffer not from impulsivity but from overcontrol — excessive self-restraint, rigidity, and difficulty expressing emotions or receiving feedback. The core practice is developing genuine willingness to be influenced by new information and other people, rather than protecting existing beliefs and behavioral patterns. - Orient action toward the common good
Before acting, ask: does this serve only me, or does it contribute to something beyond myself?
The Stoic Discipline of Action
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- What Is Act
ACT teaches you to stop fighting difficult thoughts and feelings and instead take committed action toward what you value, even while they are present. Its core processes — defusion, acceptance, contact with values, and committed action — have a substantial and growing base of randomized-trial support across many conditions.
- Act Values Commitment
Values-based action in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) means choosing behaviors that are consistent with what matters most to you — your values — rather than behaviors driven by avoidance of pain or approval-seeking. ACT distinguishes values (directions, ongoing) from goals (destinations, finishable); the emphasis is on the quality of action in the present rather than outcome attainment. ACT has robust meta-analytic support; values-based action is identified as a core mechanism.
- Vlq Act
Values-based action in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) means choosing behaviors that are consistent with what matters most to you — your values — rather than behaviors driven by avoidance of pain or approval-seeking. ACT distinguishes values (directions, ongoing) from goals (destinations, finishable); the emphasis is on the quality of action in the present rather than outcome attainment. ACT has robust meta-analytic support; values-based action is identified as a core mechanism.
- Accept Then Act
ACT teaches you to stop fighting difficult thoughts and feelings and instead take committed action toward what you value, even while they are present. Its core processes — defusion, acceptance, contact with values, and committed action — have a substantial and growing base of randomized-trial support across many conditions.
- Acceptance And Commitment Therapy
ACT teaches you to stop fighting difficult thoughts and feelings and instead take committed action toward what you value, even while they are present. Its core processes — defusion, acceptance, contact with values, and committed action — have a substantial and growing base of randomized-trial support across many conditions.
- Acceptance And Commitment Therapy Act After A Setback
ACT teaches you to stop fighting difficult thoughts and feelings and instead take committed action toward what you value, even while they are present. Its core processes — defusion, acceptance, contact with values, and committed action — have a substantial and growing base of randomized-trial support across many conditions.
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