Coaching practices for Two Way Feedback Conversation

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• I deliver my feedback as a finished verdict and then the other person just sits there closed off
• Feedback in my one-on-ones only ever flows one way
• The second someone suggests something, I’m already arguing back in my head
• My feedback conversations end with the person nodding and saying "yeah, makes sense, got it"
• Every time my partner and I try to swap ideas it slides into scoring points

Practices that may help

1. Invite a response after delivering SBI
   Close SBI by asking what the other person makes of it — not with a verdict.
   The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
2. Make feedback flow in both directions
   Give timely, specific feedback — and ask for it on your own management.
   Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
3. Receive every suggestion with only "thank you"
   Accept all feedforward without debate, justification, or even agreement — just acknowledge and note.
   Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
4. Close feedback by checking understanding, not agreement
   Ask "What did you take from that?" rather than "Do you agree?"
   The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead
5. Establish a no-argument rule in feedforward exchanges
   In structured feedforward exchanges, neither party evaluates or debates the suggestions — only listens and notes.
   Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
6. Establish shared purpose before delivering critique
   Frame critique as help toward a shared goal, not an evaluation from above.
   The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead
7. Choose the right moment and setting for feedback
   Feedback lands in proportion to how safe and ready the receiver feels — timing and privacy matter.
   The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
8. Place feedback on the 2x2
   Two axes — care personally and challenge directly — define four quadrants; only one is radical candor.
   Radical Candor, Made Practical
9. Feedback Loops and Behavior Change
   Feedback loops are the mechanism by which information about the gap between current and desired performance reaches the actor and drives adjustment. Cybernetics established the theoretical foundation; decades of applied research confirm that self-monitoring and feedback are among the most robust behavior-change techniques — particularly for health behaviors. The key design questions are feedback frequency, the right metric, and the gap between signal and response.
10. Ask for ideas about the future, not assessments of the past
    Replace "how did I do?" with "what ideas do you have for how I could do better?"
    Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior

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