Coaching practices for What Made This Year Good
Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For What Made This Year Good, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.
Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I can picture the handful of moments this year when I felt most alive, but I treat them like nice memories instead of asking what specific setup made them happen
- Good things happened this year and I’m grateful for them, but I genuinely couldn’t tell you what I did to make them happen
- When I try to look back on the whole year, all I can really summon is the last few weeks and the couple of dramatic moments
- When I look at what went wrong this year I catch myself blaming the timing, other people, the circumstances
- Something genuinely good happened today and I noticed I just kept it to myself and moved on
Practices that may help
- Inventory your peak experiences to find the conditions that produced them
Your best moments from the past year reveal which conditions you need more of next year.
The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method) - Go deep on "what went well" — extract the recipe, not just the win
A win recorded but not analyzed produces no transferable knowledge — identify what specifically caused it.
The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method) - Gather raw material before reflecting
Pull the data — calendar, photos, notes, emails — before you begin reflecting, so memory does not do all the work.
The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method) - Spend more time on "what did not go well" than on what did
Failure analysis contains the most actionable information in any honest review.
The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method) - Share one good thing with another person
Tell one person about a good thing that happened — sharing amplifies the positive experience and builds connection.
Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice - Manufacture your own landmark
When no natural landmark is near, create a meaningful one to mark the break.
The Fresh Start Effect - Three good things (positive emotions pillar)
Write down three good things that happened today and why they happened.
Seligman’s PERMA Model, Made Practical - The Annual Review (Tim Ferriss Method)
Tim Ferriss’s annual review is built on two questions — "What went well this year?" and "What did not go well this year?" — applied systematically across major life domains and answered with enough specificity to produce different decisions next year. It is a practitioner tool without clinical evidence, but its mechanisms (structured reflection, explicit failure review, behavioral specificity) are consistent with goal-review and learning research. - Use temporal landmarks to create psychological fresh starts
New week, new month, new year, or any personally meaningful date can function as a psychological reset that boosts motivation to change.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Keep entries specific, not global
One precise, specific good thing is worth more than five vague ones — train on detail, not volume.
Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice
Related concerns
- Honest Year In Review
Failure analysis contains the most actionable information in any honest review.
Spend more time on "what did not go well" than on what did
- Honest Year Review Partner
A review held privately is easier to fudge; one shared with an honest questioner is harder to rationalize.
Share the review with someone who will ask honest questions
- Peak Experiences Annual Review
Your best moments from the past year reveal which conditions you need more of next year.
Inventory your peak experiences to find the conditions that produced them
- Tim Ferriss Annual Review
Tim Ferriss’s annual review is built on two questions — "What went well this year?" and "What did not go well this year?" — applied systematically across major life domains and answered with enough specificity to produce different decisions next year. It is a practitioner tool without clinical evidence, but its mechanisms (structured reflection, explicit failure review, behavioral specificity) are consistent with goal-review and learning research.
- Year In Review Raw Material
Pull the data — calendar, photos, notes, emails — before you begin reflecting, so memory does not do all the work.
Gather raw material before reflecting
- Year In Review Template
Pull the data — calendar, photos, notes, emails — before you begin reflecting, so memory does not do all the work.
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