Coaching practices for I Keep Dreaming Up Clever Solutions and They Keep Falling Flat and I'm Starting to Suspect I've Been Solving for What I'd Want Rather Than Ever Really Looking at the Person I'm Supposedly Making This for

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  • I keep dreaming up clever solutions and they keep falling flat, and I’m starting to suspect I’ve been solving for what I’d want rather than ever really looking at the person I’m supposedly making this for.
  • I keep planning this thing in my head where it all seems to work perfectly, but the second I try to actually make it I realize I had no idea what I really wanted
  • I built the thing I was sure people wanted and it just didn’t land
  • I keep brainstorming ways to make this thing succeed and my mind just keeps agreeing with itself
  • I’ve been turning this thing over in my head for weeks, planning and re-planning, and I’ve made nothing

Practices that may help

  1. Lead ideation with deep user empathy
    Understand the person you are designing for before generating a single solution.
    Creative Confidence, Made Practical
  2. Prototype to think, not to finish
    Build or sketch something rough specifically to learn what you actually want.
    Quantity Over Quality: How More Drafts Produce Better Work
  3. Empathize — understand the user first
    Observe and interview the people you are designing for before forming any solution.
    Design Thinking, Step by Step
  4. State the goal, then invert it
    Ask "what would guarantee I fail at this?" before asking how to succeed.
    Inversion: Solve Problems Backward
  5. Bias toward action over deliberation
    Ship a rough version fast to learn what the problem actually is rather than theorizing indefinitely.
    Creative Confidence, Made Practical
  6. Iterate the matrix when solutions appear insufficient
    If all combinations seem mediocre, the dimensions may be wrong — reframe them before generating more.
    Morphological Analysis, Made Practical
  7. Use inversion as the first model in every problem
    Before solving a problem, ask what would guarantee failure — then avoid those things.
    Mental Models: Charlie Munger’s Latticework Approach
  8. Prototype with conversations and experiences
    Test a possible path cheaply — talk to someone living it, or try a small slice — before betting on it.
    Designing Your Life, Made Practical
  9. Start from the constraint, not the goal
    Define the hardest boundary first, then generate within it — rather than generating freely and pruning to the constraint.
    Deliberate Constraints, Made Practical
  10. Generate solutions without premature evaluation
    List as many potential solutions as possible before judging any of them.
    Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical

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