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- The people I’m training just go through the reps I dictate, checked-out and joyless, and I dictate every detail because I assume that’s my job
- I hand someone a task but spell out exactly how I’d do it, then pick at every little way they did it differently
- I practice on my own and only ever find out afterward that the whole thing was wrong, with no idea where I went off the rails
- I can do this thing fluently when no one’s watching, but the moment it matters I start micromanaging every step
- I run through it a handful of times, feel like I’ve basically got it, and then move on
Practices that may help
- Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy
Offer self-directed options in practice — which drill, how many reps, which cue — to enhance intrinsic motivation and learning.
External Focus of Attention, Made Practical - Delegate the outcome, not the procedure
Define what "done" looks like and why it matters, then leave the how to them.
Effective Delegation, Made Practical - Coached practice with targeted feedback
Attempt the task yourself while a coach observes and provides immediate, specific feedback on process.
Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible - Trust Self 2 — give the body an image, not instructions
Set the target in vivid sensory terms and then let the body execute without conscious direction.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - High-volume repetition blocks
Log more trials than feels necessary — automaticity is earned through quantity, not complexity.
Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves - Execute from procedural memory without step-by-step monitoring
Trust the automatic version of your skill and resist the urge to supervise each movement.
Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical - Mental rehearsal of outcomes
Vividly rehearse the result and the process, with emotion, before you act.
Tony Robbins’ Core Practices - Challenge assumptions and invite new thinking
Actively encourage your team to question old ways and generate new approaches.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Debrief each session with a structured reflection
Write a three-question debrief right after practice to convert experience into learning.
Growth-Edge Training: Practicing at the Edge of Your Ability - Exploration with guardrails
Give the learner latitude to experiment independently while keeping consequences bounded.
Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible
Related concerns
- Autogenic Training With My Team
Autogenic training (AT), developed by psychiatrist Johannes Schultz in the 1930s, is a structured self-relaxation method that uses repeated, specific phrases — "My arm is heavy," "My arm is warm" — to trigger physiological relaxation through passive concentration. A 2002 meta-analysis found AT effective for anxiety, insomnia, and functional somatic complaints. The warmth and heaviness described in the phrases are real physiological responses (vasodilation and muscle relaxation), not metaphor.
- Training By Feel
After every attempt, evaluate it against your internal model — not against how it felt.
Compare each practice attempt to your mental representation of the target
- Autogenic Fifth Exercise
Autogenic training (AT), developed by psychiatrist Johannes Schultz in the 1930s, is a structured self-relaxation method that uses repeated, specific phrases — "My arm is heavy," "My arm is warm" — to trigger physiological relaxation through passive concentration. A 2002 meta-analysis found AT effective for anxiety, insomnia, and functional somatic complaints. The warmth and heaviness described in the phrases are real physiological responses (vasodilation and muscle relaxation), not metaphor.
- Autogenic Training With Friends
Autogenic training (AT), developed by psychiatrist Johannes Schultz in the 1930s, is a structured self-relaxation method that uses repeated, specific phrases — "My arm is heavy," "My arm is warm" — to trigger physiological relaxation through passive concentration. A 2002 meta-analysis found AT effective for anxiety, insomnia, and functional somatic complaints. The warmth and heaviness described in the phrases are real physiological responses (vasodilation and muscle relaxation), not metaphor.
- Bandura Mastery Experiences
Albert Bandura identified mastery experiences — successfully completing difficult tasks — as the most powerful source of self-efficacy. Unlike praise or encouragement, mastery experiences produce direct evidence of capability; the brain stores that evidence and draws on it under future challenge. The evidence across clinical, educational, and occupational research is strong.
- Coached Practice
Attempt the task yourself while a coach observes and provides immediate, specific feedback on process.
Coached practice with targeted feedback
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