Coaching practices for I've Been Hammering Myself with Practice So Brutally Hard That I Fail Far More Than I Succeed Believing the Punishment is What Builds the Skill but I Just Leave Each Session Demoralized and Not Much Better and I'm Starting to Wonder Whether Grinding at Something I Mostly Botch is Actually Slowing Me Down
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’ve been hammering myself with practice so brutally hard that I fail far more than I succeed, believing the punishment is what builds the skill
- I’ve been putting in the hours for ages and I’ve completely plateaued
- I keep practicing the whole thing over and over and my overall level just won’t budge
- I keep drilling the same thing I already do flawlessly because the repetition feels comforting and productive
- I put in hours alone and just assume I’m getting better, but nobody’s telling me what I’m doing wrong in the moment
Practices that may help
- Design practice conditions that enhance feelings of competence
Structure early practice so it produces more success experiences — competence feeling drives motor learning.
External Focus of Attention, Made Practical - Practice deliberately, not just repeatedly
Target weaknesses with full focus and feedback, not comfortable repetition.
Grit: Passion and Perseverance, Honestly Assessed - Drill: attack your weakest sub-skill
Isolate the rate-limiting component and drill it directly.
Ultralearning: Aggressive, Self-Directed Learning - Check for diminishing returns before continuing
Beyond roughly 50–100% overlearning, additional practice yields less return per hour.
Overlearning: When Practicing Past Mastery Pays Off - Get immediate, specific feedback
Shorten the gap between an attempt and knowing exactly what was wrong.
Deliberate Practice, Not Just Practice - Switch to a new variation before mastering the current one
Move to a different variation or task before you feel fully comfortable — the premature switch is what drives deeper encoding.
Contextual Interference: Why Varied Practice Beats Blocked Repetition - Stop judging learning by today’s performance
How well you do during practice is a bad predictor of how much you will keep.
Desirable Difficulties: When Harder Means Better Learning - Calibrate practice difficulty so it is challenging but not overwhelming
Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
Contextual Interference: Why Varied Practice Beats Blocked Repetition - Add the difficulty of varied practice
Change the context, examples, and conditions instead of drilling identical reps.
Desirable Difficulties: When Harder Means Better Learning - Sustain effortful practice over the long haul
Make deliberate practice repeatable across years, not heroic for a week.
Deliberate Practice, Not Just Practice
Related concerns
- When Overlearning Diminishing Returns Checkpoint
Beyond roughly 50–100% overlearning, additional practice yields less return per hour.
Check for diminishing returns before continuing
- Sustained Practice
Make deliberate practice repeatable across years, not heroic for a week.
Sustain effortful practice over the long haul
- Deliberate Practice Consistency
Deliberate practice, studied by Anders Ericsson, is focused, effortful practice aimed just beyond your current ability, with immediate feedback and constant correction. It is what separates people who keep improving from people who simply log hours — and it is why the popular "10,000 hours" rule is an oversimplification of his work.
- Diminishing Returns Practice
Beyond roughly 50–100% overlearning, additional practice yields less return per hour.
- Good Enough Practice
Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
Calibrate practice difficulty so it is challenging but not overwhelming
- How Hard Should Practice Be
Aim for 60–85% success rates in practice — not perfection, and not near-failure.
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