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  • We’re about to kick this off and everyone’s upbeat, but I have a quiet feeling there are ways this falls apart that nobody wants to say out loud while we’re all still excited.
  • We’re about to kick off something new and everyone has private hunches about what it’ll take to pull off
  • Whenever my team sits down to spot risks, the most senior or loudest person says the first thing and suddenly everyone’s nodding along to the same two concerns
  • I’m about to commit to this timeline and on paper it all looks fine, but I have a nagging feeling I’m glossing over the ways it could go sideways because admitting them now feels like talking myself out of it before I’ve even started.
  • I’m about to commit to this plan and on paper it looks solid, but a quiet part of me suspects I’m too sold on it to see the holes

Practices that may help

  1. Run a pre-mortem before you start
    Before a project begins, ask: assume it failed — what went wrong?
    Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect
  2. Use feedforward to align team members on goals before projects begin
    At the start of a project, invite feedforward on how to succeed — before any performance to critique.
    Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
  3. Write reasons independently before discussing
    Everyone records failure causes alone first, so the room doesn’t converge too soon.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  4. Run a premortem before committing
    Imagine the project has already failed and work backwards to find why.
    The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong
  5. The premortem (imagine the project already failed)
    Before starting, assume the plan has already failed and ask why — then fix it now.
    Premeditatio Malorum, in Depth
  6. Map and stress-test your key assumptions
    Before executing, list the assumptions the plan depends on — then ask which ones would kill it if wrong.
    Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail
  7. Frame uncertain work as learning
    Before starting a challenging project, name it explicitly as an experiment where mistakes generate information.
    Psychological Safety in Teams
  8. Black hat: identify risks and why something could fail
    Apply the most rigorous critical scrutiny to the idea — the black hat is the voice of caution and evidence-based pessimism.
    Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical
  9. Pre-mortem your personal goals
    Apply the technique solo to a habit, project, or life decision.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  10. Run the basic pre-mortem
    Assume the plan failed, then have everyone write down why.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed

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