Coaching practices for When I Try to Picture Myself Old It's Just a Blank Fuzzy Outline There's No Real Face or Life There for Me to Care About So Saving and Planning for That Person Feels Like Doing Favors for Nobody
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- When I try to picture myself old it’s just a blank, fuzzy outline
- When I picture myself a year or ten years out, it’s like thinking about a stranger I don’t really owe anything to
- The version of me who’d benefit from saving feels like a stranger I owe nothing to
- I’ve tried that "imagine your future self" thing but the older me stays a vague stranger I feel nothing for, so it changes nothing
- When I try to picture my future it stays abstract and far away
Practices that may help
- Vividly visualize your future self in concrete detail
The more specific and sensory your image of your future self, the less you discount their wellbeing.
Future Self Continuity, Made Practical - Make your future self vivid to reduce psychological distance
Write to your future self or imagine a specific day in your desired future — temporal distance amplifies present bias; vividness reduces it.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Make the future self vivid and concrete
A vivid, detailed image of your future self competes more effectively with the present temptation.
The Marshmallow Test and Your Money - Write a letter from your future self
Have your 80-year-old self write back about the decision you’re facing now.
The Regret-Minimization Framework - Write a best-possible-life narrative
Write a detailed story of your life in 10 years if everything went as well as it possibly could.
The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self - Anchor the priority to a vivid future self
Saving sticks when the future it funds feels real, not abstract.
Pay Yourself First, Made Practical - The best-possible-self exercise
Regularly write a vivid picture of your life going as well as it realistically could.
Optimism Training: Building Realistic, Flexible Optimism - Empathy for future generations
Actively imagine the lives of people who will inhabit the world your choices are building.
The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life - Write a letter from your future self to your present self
Ask your 70-year-old self to write back to you now — with gratitude or regret.
Future Self Continuity, Made Practical - Elaborate your hoped-for possible self
Build a detailed, sensory-rich mental picture of a concrete future version of yourself — not an abstract goal, but a person.
Possible Selves, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Future Person Thinking
Ask your 70-year-old self to write back to you now — with gratitude or regret.
Write a letter from your future self to your present self
- Future Self Exercise
Have your 80-year-old self write back about the decision you’re facing now.
Write a letter from your future self
- Future Self Visualization
The more specific and sensory your image of your future self, the less you discount their wellbeing.
Vividly visualize your future self in concrete detail
- Future Self Visualization Writing
Write a detailed story of your life in 10 years if everything went as well as it possibly could.
Write a best-possible-life narrative
- Future Self Writing
Writing regularly to a named future self builds the relationship and makes future wellbeing feel personal.
Journal to your future self weekly
- Mental Simulation Future
Other people’s actual experiences predict your future feelings more accurately than your own imagination.
Ask people who’ve been there instead of imagining it
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