Coaching practices for My Boss Took a Real Chance on Me and Advocated for Me and I Just Took it and Moved on Without Ever Closing the Loop I Want to Make Sure My Follow Through and Acknowledgment Land So They Know the Investment Was Worth it
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- My boss took a real chance on me and advocated for me, and I just took it and moved on without ever closing the loop
- Someone gave me real time and good advice, and weeks go by where I never circle back to tell them I actually used it
- I keep handing my team finished plans and then can’t understand why they nod along but never really own it
- I only ever seem to show up to this person’s desk when I need something corrected, and I’m realizing I haven’t done a single thing purely for their benefit in months
- I give people good advice and watch it bounce right off
Practices that may help
- Reciprocate when your leader invests in you
When a leader gives you trust, opportunity, or advocacy, close the loop with visible follow-through.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - Send a meaningful thank-you note
Write a follow-up that references something specific and reports back on how you used their advice.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Invite clients or reports to contribute insight to your approach
Asking someone you lead for their input increases their investment in the outcome.
The Ben Franklin Effect, Made Practical - Give something genuine before you ask for something hard
The trust account needs deposits before you make a withdrawal — invest in the relationship before demanding performance.
Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor - Acknowledge what you heard before advancing to advice
A solution offered before the speaker feels heard is usually rejected, even when it is correct.
The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm - Map your manager’s top three priorities
Know what your manager is measured on and being pressured about — your work lands differently when it connects to that.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Invest in the relationship before you need it
Build relational credit through reliability and initiative, not charm or performance alone.
Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical - Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Follow through on micro-commitments
Always do the small thing you said you’d do — weak ties live or die on reliability.
The Strength of Weak Ties
Related concerns
- Relationship Quality With Boss
Know what your manager is measured on and being pressured about — your work lands differently when it connects to that.
Map your manager’s top three priorities
- Should I Ask For A Lead Title If I Expect To Be Manager
Leading as a coach means creating space for people to think and grow rather than solving every problem for them. The approach draws on coaching methodology — asking over telling, listening before advising — and is supported by research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and learning. The shift is behaviorally demanding because telling feels faster and more capable, even when it systematically reduces the people around you.
- Advice On Poor Communication With A Manager
Match your manager’s preferred level of detail, pace, and channel — not theirs to yours.
Adapt to your manager’s communication style
- Boss Making Me Feel Guilty For Leaving The Company At The End Of My Internship
Before leaving work, take 15 minutes to list tomorrow’s priorities and explicitly close today’s open loops.
Use a 15-minute end-of-day planning buffer to close the day’s loops
- Former Manager Who Left Company Is Asking For Documentation I Prepared As His Direct Report
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Send proactive, brief status updates
- How Can I Encourage My Manager To Move His Ideas Forward Without Overstepping
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
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