Coaching practices for When Strengths Become Weaknesses

Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For When Strengths Become Weaknesses, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The very thing I’m best at turns on me under pressure
• I pour most of my effort into shoring up the things I’m bad at and it crawls
• I’m trying to reach this goal by white-knuckling through the exact things I’m worst at, and it’s draining and stalling
• I spend so much energy trying to fix my weak spots that my days feel like a grind against my own grain
• I’ve quietly filed each person on my team as strong or weak, and then I’m baffled when my "strong" one flounders on something new

Practices that may help

1. Map how your strengths distort under stress
   Identify the "overuse" and "underuse" of each signature strength — how they show up when you’re at your worst.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
2. Invest more development effort in your strengths than in your weaknesses
   Move from average to excellent in your strength areas rather than from poor to average in your weak ones.
   Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
3. Set goals that build on your signature strengths
   Design goals that let your top strengths be the primary vehicle rather than your weak spots.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
4. Use your signature strengths in a new way
   Identify your top character strengths and deploy one of them differently each day.
   Positive Psychology, Made Practical
5. Assess readiness task by task, not person by person
   Rate competence and commitment for the specific task in front of them, not the person overall.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
6. Build a team whose combined strengths cover all four domains
   Hire and assemble deliberately for domain coverage, not for people who think like you.
   Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
7. Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
   Strengths-based leadership, developed by Tom Rath and Barry Conchie building on Gallup’s decades of manager research, holds that the most effective leaders invest in their own strengths and build teams whose combined strengths cover all four leadership domains — executing, influencing, relationship building, and strategic thinking. Gallup’s correlational research consistently finds that strength-focused teams report higher engagement and performance, though the causal direction is not fully established.
8. Use a signature strength in a new way each day for one week
   Apply one of your top character strengths to a context or relationship where you don’t normally use it.
   VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
9. Identify your dominant leadership strengths — and lead from them
   Know which of the four leadership domains you naturally operate from and amplify it rather than trying to be equally strong in all four.
   Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical
10. Use constraint-based drills to isolate one component
    Remove degrees of freedom so attention concentrates on a single weak sub-skill.
    Growth-Edge Training: Practicing at the Edge of Your Ability

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