Coaching practices for I Throw Around Words Like Probably and Pretty Likely and They Mean Nothing There's No Way to Check Later Whether I Was Right Because I Never Pinned Down What I Actually Believed So I Keep Sliding Past My Own Vagueness with No Feedback at All
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- I throw around words like “probably” and “pretty likely” and they mean nothing
- My beliefs are all hedged into mush
- However things turn out, I can always tell myself I was basically right because my predictions are vague enough to survive anything
- I state every opinion like it’s flat-out fact, and then the other person hears a hard line and braces to defend theirs
- I talk about the future in flat will-or-won’t terms
Practices that may help
- Think and communicate in explicit probabilities
Replace vague language ("probably," "likely") with numerical probabilities.
Superforecasting - Make your beliefs precise enough to be wrong
Vague claims cannot be falsified — sharpen your belief until it can be.
Falsification Thinking - Pre-commit to resolution criteria before making a prediction
Define exactly what counts as "I was right" before the outcome happens.
Calibration Training - State your confidence level alongside your position
"I’m about 70% confident on this" signals a reasoned estimate, not a fact claim.
Productive Disagreement, Made Practical - Think in probabilities, not certainties
Replace "I think this will happen" with "I think there is a 70% chance this will happen."
Thinking in Bets - Update incrementally as evidence arrives rather than waiting for certainty
State your current best-guess probability, identify what would shift it, and update when that evidence arrives.
Ambiguity Aversion — Why Unknown Odds Feel Worse Than Bad Odds - Make bold predictions — then check them
State a specific, testable prediction about the future and record it before you see the outcome.
Falsification Thinking - Practice probabilistic calibration by tracking your predictions
Assign explicit probability estimates to your predictions and track whether they come true at the right rate.
Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds - Distinguish uncertainty (quantifiable) from ignorance (unquantifiable)
Know when you can assign a probability and when the situation is so novel that a number would be fabricated.
Calibration Training - Form a testable prediction before you act
State in advance what you expect to happen, so the result is evidence rather than noise.
Plan–Do–Study–Act: Deming’s Loop for Personal Improvement
Related concerns
- When Calibration Training Pre Commit To Resolution Criteria
Define exactly what counts as "I was right" before the outcome happens.
Pre-commit to resolution criteria before making a prediction
- When Thinking In Bets Think In Probabilities
Replace "I think this will happen" with "I think there is a 70% chance this will happen."
Think in probabilities, not certainties
- How To Express Uncertainty
Know when you can assign a probability and when the situation is so novel that a number would be fabricated.
Distinguish uncertainty (quantifiable) from ignorance (unquantifiable)
- How To Express Uncertainty In A Relationship
Explicitly remind your partner of your love, commitment, and investment in the relationship.
Give regular assurances of commitment
- Meaning Without Certainty
Replace vague language ("probably," "likely") with numerical probabilities.
Think and communicate in explicit probabilities
- When Bayesian Thinking Calibration Practice
Your "80% confident" beliefs should come true about 80% of the time — check that they do.
Practice calibration by tracking your confidence predictions
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