Coaching practices for I Talk About the Future in Flat Will or Won't Terms It'll Work it Won't and it Leaves No Room for How Unsure I Actually Am or Any Way to Find Out Later Whether My Confidence Was Warranted I Want to Start Putting Honest Odds on What I Believe
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- I talk about the future in flat will-or-won’t terms
- I’ll declare I’m totally sure about something, but the instant I imagine actually putting real money on it my stomach tightens
- I state every opinion like it’s flat-out fact, and then the other person hears a hard line and braces to defend theirs
- I keep saying I’m certain about this, but the second I imagine actually putting real money on it I get this twist of hesitation
- I have all these confident hunches about how things will turn out, but I never commit to a specific call in advance
Practices that may help
- Think in probabilities, not certainties
Replace "I think this will happen" with "I think there is a 70% chance this will happen."
Thinking in Bets - Put stakes on your beliefs — even hypothetically
Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
The Scout Mindset - State your confidence level alongside your position
"I’m about 70% confident on this" signals a reasoned estimate, not a fact claim.
Productive Disagreement, Made Practical - Translate beliefs into bets to reveal your true confidence
Would you bet $100 on that belief at even odds? The answer often reveals the gap between claimed and actual confidence.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Make bold predictions — then check them
State a specific, testable prediction about the future and record it before you see the outcome.
Falsification Thinking - Think and communicate in explicit probabilities
Replace vague language ("probably," "likely") with numerical probabilities.
Superforecasting - Separate motivational optimism from your forecast
Let your ambition be honest about what it is — a desired outcome — without contaminating your probability estimate.
The Outside View - Run a premortem before committing
Imagine the decision has already failed — then ask why.
Thinking in Bets - Pre-commit to resolution criteria before making a prediction
Define exactly what counts as "I was right" before the outcome happens.
Calibration Training - Distinguish uncertainty (quantifiable) from ignorance (unquantifiable)
Know when you can assign a probability and when the situation is so novel that a number would be fabricated.
Calibration Training
Related concerns
- When Superforecasting Think In Probabilities
Replace vague language ("probably," "likely") with numerical probabilities.
Think and communicate in explicit probabilities
- Meaning Without Certainty
Replace vague language ("probably," "likely") with numerical probabilities.
- When Fermi Estimation Estimate In Ranges
Instead of "my estimate is 500," say "I think it is between 200 and 2000."
Estimate in ranges, not point estimates
- Confidence Vs Certainty
Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
Put stakes on your beliefs — even hypothetically
- How To Be Less Certain
Ask: "Would I bet on this?" to separate genuine confidence from performed confidence.
- How To Express Uncertainty
Know when you can assign a probability and when the situation is so novel that a number would be fabricated.
Distinguish uncertainty (quantifiable) from ignorance (unquantifiable)
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