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  • I’m about to launch into something and I keep estimating how it’ll go off the handful of vivid winners in my head
  • I’m guessing how this goal of mine will play out purely from my own picture of it, and it feels sure to work
  • I’m about to commit to this timeline and on paper it all looks fine, but I have a nagging feeling I’m glossing over the ways it could go sideways because admitting them now feels like talking myself out of it before I’ve even started.
  • When I ask myself "what could go wrong with this plan," I either draw a blank or come up with one vague worry
  • We’re about to kick this off and everyone’s upbeat, but I have a quiet feeling there are ways this falls apart that nobody wants to say out loud while we’re all still excited.

Practices that may help

  1. Choose the right reference class for any prediction
    Find the statistical base rate for the category your decision belongs to — not just the inspiring examples.
    Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
  2. Use reference classes to ground personal estimates in base rates
    Before estimating how your situation will unfold, find similar past situations and check what happened.
    Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally
  3. Run a premortem before committing
    Imagine the project has already failed and work backwards to find why.
    The Planning Fallacy — Why Your Estimates Are Always Wrong
  4. Run the basic pre-mortem
    Assume the plan failed, then have everyone write down why.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  5. Run a pre-mortem before you start
    Before a project begins, ask: assume it failed — what went wrong?
    Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect
  6. Pre-mortem your personal goals
    Apply the technique solo to a habit, project, or life decision.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  7. Run a premortem before committing
    Imagine the decision has already failed — then ask why.
    Thinking in Bets
  8. The premortem (imagine the project already failed)
    Before starting, assume the plan has already failed and ask why — then fix it now.
    Premeditatio Malorum, in Depth
  9. Pair the pre-mortem with a clear success vision
    Balance failure analysis with an equally concrete picture of what success requires.
    The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed
  10. Take the outside view (base rates)
    Estimate using the track record of similar cases, not the vivid details of your own.
    Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable

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