Coaching practices for I've Been Treating Some Rule About How This Has to Be Done as If it Were a Law of Physics and it Just Dawned on Me That Nobody Actually Decreed it It's a Habit I Inherited and Never Once Stopped to Ask Whether it Has to Be True at All

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• I’ve been treating some rule about how this has to be done as if it were a law of physics, and it just dawned on me that nobody actually decreed it
• I’ve been treating a bunch of "this is just how it has to be" rules as iron law for so long that I’ve stopped seeing them
• I keep telling myself "it has to be this way" and "that’s just not an option," and I’ve never once stopped to write down those rules and ask whether the problem actually imposed them or whether I just assumed them.
• There’s a limit I’ve just always assumed about this
• I’m staring at a case where following the rule to the letter would clearly produce the wrong result

Practices that may help

1. Identify the constraint you invented: ask "who said it had to be this way?"
   Name one element of your creative work you have never questioned and spend 20 minutes treating it as optional.
   The Beginner’s Mind in Creative Practice
2. Challenge: systematically question why things are done the way they are
   Ask "Why must this be this way?" for each element of the problem — not to be contrarian, but to find which constraints are real.
   Lateral Thinking, Made Practical
3. Make your constraints explicit before solving
   Write out every assumption and rule you are treating as fixed — most problem-solvers carry invisible constraints they never surface.
   Constraint Relaxation: Escaping the Walls You Built Yourself
4. Constraint vacation: remove a constraint to see what you’ve been avoiding
   Temporarily lift a constraint you’ve accepted as fixed and ask what you would do if it genuinely did not apply.
   Deliberate Constraints, Made Practical
5. Practice equity: bend general rules to particular cases
   Apply rules with awareness that no rule perfectly fits every situation; the wise person corrects for the fit.
   Phronesis: Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom
6. Use Socratic questioning to test each belief
   Interrogate every claim with “how do I know this is true?” until only bedrock remains.
   First-Principles Thinking, Made Usable
7. Question what everyone takes for granted
   Choose one widely shared assumption — in your field, your culture, or your circle — and examine it honestly.
   The Examined Life
8. Audit for gravity problems blocking your plans
   Identify which constraints you treat as fixed that are actually choices — and test whether they are as fixed as they feel.
   Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
9. Check whether the rules of your domain are actually stable
   Before applying any probability model, ask whether the rules governing outcomes could change mid-game.
   The Ludic Fallacy: When You Mistake Real Life for a Game
10. Deconstruct the problem to its fundamentals
    Break the problem into the few things you actually know to be true, with no inherited conclusions.
    First-Principles Thinking, Made Usable

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