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- There’s a stressful thing coming up in a few minutes and I can already feel myself winding tight
- I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
- Every time I face the same kind of high-stakes moment my nerves hit me cold and unpredictable, and I want some small repeatable thing I do beforehand
- Every time I face the hard thing I get so wound up beforehand that I’m half-shot before I even start, and I’ve got nothing steady to hold onto going in or coming out
- Right in the thick of a stressful moment my mind goes tunnel-vision and I react on pure impulse before I’ve thought anything through
Practices that may help
- Slowed, extended-exhale breathing
Deliberately lengthen the exhale to down-regulate the nervous system within minutes.
Tony Robbins’ Core Practices - Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
Power Posing Revisited - Anchor the growth zone with a comfort ritual
Pair stretch activities with a brief comfort ritual before and after to keep the nervous system regulated.
The Comfort Zone Model: How to Grow Without Burning Out - Use the prayer as a real-time triage tool in high-stress moments
In acute stress, running the three-part sequence interrupts reactivity and restores the capacity to respond.
The Serenity Prayer as a Practice Framework - Pre-performance heart-focused breathing
Use 2–5 minutes of slow, heart-centered breathing before high-stakes moments to enter them calmer and sharper.
Heart Rate Variability Training, Made Practical - Slow diaphragmatic yoga breathing
The stress-reduction core of yoga is the long, slow exhale — not the postures.
Yoga for Stress: What the Research Shows - Standardize the duration of your routine
Fix the length of your pre-performance sequence so timing does not become a pressure variable.
Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical - Use slow, rhythmic breathing to down-regulate
Lengthen and steady the breath to move the autonomic system out of alarm.
The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained - Design your pre-performance sequence with clear functional anchors
Build a sequence where every step serves a specific psychological function — not just habit.
Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
Related concerns
- How To Calm Nerves Before Event
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
- When Posture And Confidence Posture Before High Stakes
Take a private moment to settle into a confident posture before a presentation or hard talk.
Set your posture before high-stakes moments
- Breathing Before Stress
Run a two-to-four minute box session before you enter a high-pressure situation to prime calmer baseline.
Use box breathing before — not only during — stress
- Cotterill Pre Performance Routine
Pre-performance routines are standardized behavioral and mental sequences performed before a performance that direct attention, manage arousal, and activate well-rehearsed movement patterns. Sport psychology research (particularly Stuart Cotterill’s work) and multiple meta-analyses find they reliably improve consistency and reduce performance variability across athletic and skill-based tasks.
- Havening Before Performance
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
- How To Stop Feeling Nervous
Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is the same, the performance effect is not.
Reappraise anxiety as excitement before high-stakes performance
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