Coaching practices for Why Do I Feel Emotions So Intensely Autism
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- A feeling slams into me and I have no idea where it came from or why it’s this big
- When a feeling takes over I’m just lost inside it, like it’s the whole room
- My kid is sobbing about something that seems so small, and every instinct in me wants to explain why it’s not a big deal
- Something just set me off and I can feel it surging right now
- I feel the jealousy or the hurt and then immediately pile on a second layer of "I shouldn’t feel this, a mature person wouldn’t"
Practices that may help
- Understand the function of the emotion
Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical - Name what the emotion is doing in your body
Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical - Listen empathically and validate the feeling
Reflect the emotion you see accurately before you do anything else.
Emotion Coaching (John Gottman) - Observe the emotion without feeding it
When a strong emotion hits, watch it without adding the story that keeps it going.
The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical - Give yourself permission to feel
Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
Radical Honesty About Emotions, Made Practical - Get curious about the feeling, not critical
Ask "what is this emotion and what is it about?" instead of "why do I feel this way again?"
Emotional Granularity: Precision as a Regulation Skill - Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary - Track your emotions over time
Log feelings briefly across days to see the patterns and triggers you would otherwise miss.
Emotional Granularity: Precision as a Regulation Skill - Notice and name mixed or contradictory emotions simultaneously
When something significant happens, look for two or more emotions that coexist — even contradictory ones.
The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary - Recognize aware presence within strong emotion
When a strong emotion arises, shift to noticing the awareness in which the emotion appears rather than being swept by it.
Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Why Do I Feel All Emotions So Intensely
Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
Give yourself permission to feel
- Why Do I Feel Emotions So Intensely
Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
- Why Do I Feel Emotions So Intensely All The Time
Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
- Why Am I So Emotional
Identify which situations reliably produce which emotions for you — before you need to regulate them.
Map your emotional landscape
- Why Do I Feel Others Emotions So Intensely
Accurately read and take seriously what other people are feeling.
Empathy
- Awe Emotion Psychology
Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
Understand the function of the emotion
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