Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 121)

Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain · Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action · Acquire tacit knowledge through extended immersive practice + 7 more

Attention Reclaiming: Digital Minimalism in Practice · Digital Minimalism, Made Practical · Set explicit values-based rules for each technology you keep + 7 more

Tactical Empathy · Take their perspective accurately · Mirror to keep them talking + 7 more

Attention Restoration in Nature · Use nature walks to restore directed attention after deep cognitive work · Seek both green and blue space + 7 more

Personalization and self-blame · The practice of self-responsibility · Habit 1: Be proactive + 7 more

Attention Restoration in Nature · Seek both green and blue space · Use nature walks to restore directed attention after deep cognitive work + 7 more

Use the talking piece to enforce equal voice · The Circle Process (Kay Pranis) · Design a centerpiece that holds the circle’s purpose + 7 more

Attention Restoration in Nature · Use nature walks to restore directed attention after deep cognitive work · Seek both green and blue space + 7 more

Use constraint-based drills to isolate one component · Break the skill into components and drill the weak link · Use instructional self-talk for precision skill tasks + 7 more

Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical · Selective attention to individual sounds · Daily 12-minute ATT practice + 7 more

Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical · Selective attention to individual sounds · Daily 12-minute ATT practice + 7 more

The ABCDE prioritization method · Order the six tasks by genuine importance, not urgency · Run a single weekly priority-setting meeting + 7 more

Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical · Selective attention to individual sounds · Daily 12-minute ATT practice + 7 more

Use personal landmarks, not just calendar ones · Use a landmark to recover after a lapse · Time your start to a temporal landmark + 7 more

Calibration practice · Identifying the Belief to Test · Confidence-accuracy gap tracking + 7 more

Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World · Behavioral experiments · Identifying the Belief to Test + 7 more

The Testing Effect: Why Retrieval Practice Beats Restudying · Use frequent low-stakes quizzes rather than rare high-stakes tests · Attempt to recall before studying new material + 7 more

Exercise the last human freedom · Notice lasts — the last-time meditation · Find the attitudinal value in unavoidable suffering + 7 more

Know when errorless learning is the right call instead · Prioritize items you were confidently wrong about · Rule out mind-reading and fortune-telling + 7 more

The Thought Record: CBT’s Core Self-Examination Tool · Portable thought catching: the one-column version · Rate emotional intensity before and after + 7 more

Observing thoughts as arising and passing events · Cognitive defusion · Relabel the thought as a mental event, not a fact + 7 more

Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice · Share one good thing with another person · Apply three good things to work contexts specifically + 7 more

The Three-Minute Breathing Space · Expand: widen awareness back to body and situation · Use it as a pause before a difficult response + 7 more

Distinguish outcomes from tasks when setting your three · Evaluate your three outcomes at day’s end · The Rule of Three for Productivity, Made Practical + 7 more

Seligman’s PERMA Model, Made Practical · Positive Psychology, Made Practical · Learned Optimism: Seligman’s ABCDE Method + 7 more

Fear-Setting, Made Practical · Fear-setting — define the downside before deciding · Set realistic expectations before each exposure + 7 more

Time Affluence, Made Practical · Time Affluence Practices (Cassie Holmes) · Time Smart: Buying Back Your Time Affluence + 7 more

Time-box tasks instead of scheduling by list · Time Blocking, Made Practical · Task Batching: Grouping Similar Work to Cut Switching Costs + 7 more

Automaticity: When Skills Run Themselves · Dual-task monitoring · Overlearn skills that must survive pressure + 7 more

Use timed writing sprints to break creative blocks · Timed drafting sprints · The 25/5 cycle + 7 more

Awe and the Small Self · Use fierce self-compassion to stay in hard conversations · Deliberately invoke the small-self shift + 7 more

Awe and the Small Self · Write from a small-self perspective after awe · Courting the small self + 7 more

Tip-of-tongue resolution practice · Feeling of Knowing: Why Your Confidence Misleads You · Recall before recognition + 7 more

Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical · Apply three good things to work contexts specifically · Audit your life against PERMA + 7 more

Titration in Somatic Practice, Made Practical · Keep each dose short — leave before flooding · Track completion signals after each titrated dose + 7 more

Protect fondness actively during and after conflict · Easy Manner: bring a light touch when appropriate · Treat conflict as maintenance, not maintenance failure + 7 more

Separate “the world is uncertain here” from “I don’t know enough yet” · Shift from negative to positive orientation toward uncertainty · Uncertainty Tolerance Training + 7 more

Understand awe’s physical dimension · Adopt the "stress-is-enhancing" mindset · Cultivate meaning as a stress-buffering resource + 7 more

Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending · Tonglen: sending and taking · Use flash tonglen in the moment of encountering suffering + 7 more

Benefit-Finding: Locating Meaning and Growth in Adversity · Benefit-Finding in Adversity, Made Practical · Wait until the adversity has passed its acute phase before seeking benefits + 7 more

Tony Robbins’ Core Practices · Priming (the 10-minute morning routine) · Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical + 7 more

Benefit-Finding in Adversity, Made Practical · Benefit-Finding: Locating Meaning and Growth in Adversity · Wait until the adversity has passed its acute phase before seeking benefits + 7 more

Audit and renegotiate your commitments · Exit obligations gracefully and early · Pruning commitments, not just things + 7 more

Benefit-Finding in Adversity, Made Practical · Benefit-Finding: Locating Meaning and Growth in Adversity · Wait until the adversity has passed its acute phase before seeking benefits + 7 more

Track body sensation (the felt sense) · Follow tracking with explicit safety reassurance · Track the felt sense during pendulation + 7 more

Identify your natural grieving style and adjust for it · Deliberately engage loss-oriented work · Treating grief as a form of gratitude + 7 more

Trade across issues where each side has different priorities · Trade across differing priorities · Logroll by trading issues of unequal importance + 7 more

Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up · Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss · Disagree with your manager constructively + 7 more

Give voice to those with uncomfortable perspectives · Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up · Take a structured time-out + 7 more

Close with a forward-looking resolve · Build a weekly reflection ritual so the cycle runs regularly · End every review with a single resolved next action + 7 more

Drop the safety behaviors · Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after · Fade reassurance-seeking + 7 more

Turning Toward: The Daily Practice That Builds Relationship Resilience · Give a minimal but genuine turn-toward response · Develop the habit of turning toward + 7 more

Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem · Adapt to your manager’s communication style · Send proactive, brief status updates + 7 more

Mapping the twelve-link chain to a real episode of suffering · Dependent Origination: How Suffering Arises and Ceases · Nagarjuna's insight: no link exists independently + 7 more

Offer office hours to concentrate collaboration · Handling external interruptions · Protect mornings for deep work — no internal meetings before noon + 7 more

Make your constraints explicit before solving · Park hard problems to incubate overnight · Use task tension to fuel creative incubation + 7 more

Breathwork for Energy · The physiological sigh · Activating (energizing) breath + 7 more

Breathwork for Energy · The physiological sigh · Recover through the nose after exercise + 7 more

Finding Unique Outcomes (Exceptions to the Problem Story) · Narrative Therapy: Rewriting the Stories That Define You · Therapeutic Letters + 7 more

Activating (energizing) breath · Breathwork for Energy · Rapid diaphragmatic breathing (breath of fire) + 7 more

Breathwork for Energy · Activating (energizing) breath · Pacing breath to the state a task needs + 7 more

Activating (energizing) breath · Breathwork for Energy · Rapid diaphragmatic breathing (breath of fire) + 7 more

Protecting unscheduled time · Build buffer blocks into the ideal week · Protect genuinely idle time from task-filling + 7 more

Posture and Confidence, Honestly Explained · Adopt expansive posture to shift subjective confidence · Build the strength that makes upright effortless + 7 more

Situation selection · Situation Selection, Made Practical · Replace suppression with upstream reappraisal + 7 more

Building a Second Brain (BASB), Made Practical · Actively connect ideas across projects and topics · Chunk information before asking working memory to use it + 7 more

Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving · Panic Surfing · Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical + 7 more

Building a Second Brain (BASB), Made Practical · Actively connect ideas across projects and topics · Engage the upstairs brain through curiosity and play + 7 more

Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving · Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical · Panic Surfing + 7 more

Building a Second Brain (BASB), Made Practical · Learn to recognize your challenge vs. threat physiological state · Overlearn skills that must survive pressure + 7 more

Sort by urgent vs important · Sort tasks by the importance-urgency matrix · Separate urgent from important with a dedicated triage window + 7 more

Build sanctuaries for renewal outside the system · Obstacle anticipation before close · Pair the enhancing mindset with genuine stress management + 7 more

Separate urgent from important with a dedicated triage window · Sort by urgent vs important · Sort tasks by the importance-urgency matrix + 7 more

Handling external interruptions · Treat time as your only real wealth · Communicate your theme-day structure to collaborators + 7 more

Drop the "eight glasses" rule and read your body · Recognize mild dehydration as a hidden performance drag · Mindful Hydration: Water, Cognition, and Mood + 7 more

Set hard app limits using built-in screen-time tools · Strip out the attention-capturing features · Ask open-ended map-building questions + 7 more

Tolerate silence · Tolerate the silence · Use silence as the follow-up question + 7 more

Create and protect the couple bubble · Pro-relationship maintenance behaviors · Cultivating mystery: becoming interesting to yourself first + 7 more

Make process goals behaviorally specific enough to direct attention · Make stretch goals specific, not just big · Report against specific, verifiable commitments + 7 more

Understand why you’re attracted to someone opposite -- without pathologizing it · Follow flow as a clue · Recognize your demon dialogue -- the negative cycle running your relationship + 7 more

Stimulate the vagus nerve with slow breathing · The Gut-Brain Axis: How Your Gut Talks to Your Brain · Understand the vagus nerve pathway between gut bacteria and mood + 7 more

Give yourself permission to feel · Create and protect the couple bubble · Build a culture of genuine appreciation as a horsemen antidote + 7 more

Choose time over money on purpose · Actively choose time over money at decision points · Apply the "value per dollar" test to major purchases + 7 more

CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical · Use sleep hygiene as the foundation, not the cure · Learn the two-process model of sleep + 7 more

Valued living audit: how much are you actually living your values? · Excavate your actual values from your history · Values Clarification, Made Practical + 7 more

CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical · Challenge catastrophic thoughts about sleep · Stimulus Control for Sleep + 7 more

Ventral Vagal Activation: Accessing the Safe-and-Social State · Hum, tone, or chant to activate the social engagement system · Sympathetic-to-ventral moves: downshifting mobilization + 7 more

CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical · Stimulus Control for Sleep · Use sleep hygiene as the foundation, not the cure + 7 more

Ventral Vagal Activation: Accessing the Safe-and-Social State · Sympathetic-to-ventral moves: downshifting mobilization · Hum, tone, or chant to activate the social engagement system + 7 more

Mirror the last few words of what someone just said · Mirroring and Matching, Made Practical · Mirroring + 7 more

Prioritize vigorous exercise snacks over mild ones for cardiovascular benefit · Exercise Snacks: Short Bursts of Movement That Actually Work · Exercise Snacking, Made Practical + 7 more

Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical · Reframe threat as challenge · Learn to recognize your challenge vs. threat physiological state + 7 more

Use the bullseye to resolve competing values · Channel ambition to the institution, not yourself · Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills + 7 more

Cialdini’s Principles of Influence · Social proof · Authority + 7 more

Build a vivid, concrete future orientation · Write vivid imagined future scenes · Outcome — vividly imagine the best result + 7 more

Cialdini’s Principles of Influence · Competing (assertive, uncooperative) · Adapt your conflict approach to the other person’s DISC style + 7 more

VO2 max intervals (Zone 4–5) to push your aerobic ceiling · Use the broken-speech threshold for hard intervals · VO2 max intervals + 7 more

Cialdini’s Principles of Influence · Social proof · Authority + 7 more

VO2 Max and Longevity: Training Your Aerobic Ceiling · VO2 Max and Longevity: The Peter Attia Framework · Assess your VO2 max with a field test or lab test + 7 more

Classical Conditioning and Habit Triggers · Counter-condition an unwanted cue-response pair · Map your habit cues before trying to change the behavior + 7 more